I would bring it up at the beginning, before we even order: "Is it ok if we split this?"
2026-10-16 18:51:24
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Wayne :
I may be old fashioned, but if I ask a lady to go on a date, I’m paying whether we click or not. If we start dating and going on trips, I’m paying
2026-10-14 19:26:45
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pbmac333 :
A woman expecting me to pay is 100% different than me paying.
2026-10-14 22:08:55
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NormanT001 :
When I was dating in the stone age(the70s), I paid for everything. These days of ridiculously high prices, not too sure after about date 2-3 the cost shouldn’t be split for most people. Then again, I found the dates that didn’t cost much were the best anyway, the beach, walks, mall strolling, concerts in the park etc.
2026-11-09 00:39:07
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Jackpotjohn :
So tell me why it is important for a woman that the man pays? Enlighten me?
2026-10-15 16:12:21
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leslies :
I would never go on a date with a person or a guy that wouldn’t pay… That is very ungentlemanly like in my opinion just not a man
2026-10-14 15:08:17
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paula329 :
It’s no longer a date if I have to pay my half.
2026-10-15 03:01:20
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Mr. B in STL :
I pay. Maybe two exceptions…if she insists on paying because she set it up, or we have been together for a while.
2026-11-01 14:01:12
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Precimar :
The men that feel like they don’t have to pay should stay home and not date
2026-10-16 10:43:49
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aprilestess :
Too bad you aren’t a lesbian 😂 Me and my girl fight over who GETS to pay because we both want to spoil each other. Being loved by someone who gives you her all feels pretty amazing. ❤️
2026-10-14 21:27:08
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Anastasia Claire :
I would be so embarrassed as a man. I seriously would. My son is 18 and pays for his girlfriend every date. I would hate to raise a young man like that but yes I want to be enlightened also [Tears of joy][Tears of joy][Tears of joy]
2026-10-14 14:08:23
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Diane :
I went on a date and his credit card got declined so I paid. We went to an ATM to repay me ..yup ..no money!!! Next!!!! 😳
2026-10-14 20:28:58
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ItsmeMickie☮️💙 :
Without expecting something in return .
2026-10-15 20:45:48
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Sunshiny Day :
Never had this happen! New fear unlocked!
2026-10-17 20:18:55
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sunnyday3658 :
A guy asked me for coffee once. He had made it a point to tell me he makes $40/hr. Never married, no kids. He didn’t pay for my coffee….AWKWARD 🤣
2026-10-14 21:23:41
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wade1963 :
No ,I have always paid the bill and will continue to pay .🌹
2026-11-03 23:57:40
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Shelley :
omg...you have to.watch SharkTank last Wednesday. There is a product called the Bye Bye button. A button u put in your pocket and when youre wanting to get out of it...it rings like spit phone!!! gives us a way out😂😂😂😂
2026-10-17 04:32:46
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Robert G :
I wouldn't embarrass myself by asking anyone to split a bill.
2026-10-30 02:17:17
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Dani :
I agree with this💯
2026-10-21 01:09:02
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Rachel :
I split the check with friends. So I would therefore only think of him as a "friend."
2026-11-04 13:48:26
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leslierosearger :
No woman is looking for those Men
2026-10-16 01:30:26
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Ursula :
I have not paid for a single date and ignore the bill when it arrives. The amount of effort I put in for a date, I believe it is a privilege for a man to be seen with me. I find this a matter of effort- I go to the hairsalon, do my nails, make up. I once wore my most expensive outfit. He arrived in an unironed shirt, pants and flipflops. Guess what he did to get ready? He took a shower. When you are in the presence of a woman you should feel overwhelmingly compelled to thank her for her effort.
2026-10-16 13:01:42
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TammyLovesTiktok :
I had a guy ask me, how do you plan on paying for this after dinner? He drove three hours to see me, and he asked for half of his travel lady expenses.
2026-10-15 15:30:35
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2 Broke Crew :
I usually say I forgot my wallet, can you cover it, to see how much she wants me.
2026-10-14 15:15:41
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