@mandyworking:

Erm :

That’s the biggest thing I worked through in EMDR. I could have done everything right or everything wrong, either way I was still assaulted. And I still deserve kindness and gentleness. I made a lot of progress once I truly let myself believe that

yourmom69s :

thank you Mandy love you feel better

Greenie :

I can live with A LOT! Crazy how the simple things mean so much 😍 Thank you

Dr. Anna K :

Still healing all of us while healing. Feel better queen!

Oddchild :

I did a lot of things I regret for love as a young teen. Thank you for this. Gonna have a good cry still though 😅

SpillingVictoriasSecrets🩵 :

I was 13 and would sneak out to hang out with grown men. I accepted that yeah I put myself in a bad situation but I was a child and that helped heal soooooo much

Zebwak :

I found it helpful to think of the guilt as part of the self-care process. It’s not that I feel guilty because it was my fault and I am bad, I feel guilty so that I prevent it happening again. In other words, my subconscious cares about protecting me so much that it wants to make sure I am prepared next time. It’s not my subconscious‘s fault that that’s the only solution it has for me.

Froggy :

💚💚💚 💔😭 thank you for this message today I needed it a lot.

Josie :

I hope you feel better soon and thank you for consistently changing my life. 🫶

cxdyscxrs :

Get some Emergen-C. Hope you feel better soon!

Danny Lizzy :

I adore your content thank you for all that you do and say

Ash🦜 :

Craggy rocks is the perfect description [Red heart]

e* :

you are saving lives with this content <3

ianipoos :

Needed this. Thankyou.

theodorehancock13 :

brilliant.

meowmo27 :

Thank you. It’s amazing how much I am living with and yet, I’m still here❤️Hope you feel better soon!!

Allison Dvorak :

Thank you.

Shelf Indulgence :

thank you get better 🩵

😸🫅💫Danny💫🫅😸 :

It was my fault that I chose to take a drag off their cigarette. It wasn't my fault that I was 6 and believed that I'd get in trouble for smoking if I didn't do what they wanted

Jess :

Aww. I needed it. My life is finally getting better after dv and losing my kids to my abuser and my brain wants to fight the good so badly. 🫠

Bofa 🇨🇦 :

You are such an important voice for our world. All of this — thank you.

nichole lix :

You are the coolest person on this earth! Your voice needs a megaphone

themoonschi1d :

nurturegirl :

I was shocked to hear that someone working at institutional mental health facilities was actually taught that a victim believing it was their fault was good for them because it gave them a sense they could do something in a situation where they felt powerless. I can grasp some little nuance of that being right but mostly it seemed now like that dude was blocking recourse to justice by weaponizing victim-blaming.

AX :

good stuff