@pushalova_official: Being together for years doesn’t automatically mean marriage is the next step. ❤️ Time together matters, but readiness and commitment matter too. #RelationshipTalk #MarriageTalk #LoveAndCommitment #ModernDating #realtalk

user58412949565017 :

Guys or it's only me that's wants love, there's no need for marriage or children to validate our love for each other, why can't we validate our love by traveling together experiencing new things studying new different degrees buy properties, i know it's not logical but can't it be🤔

ẞÇŌTT🫠😶 :

i can still merry you and you stay at your place and I stay in my place simple

Zoe🍒 :

its all Perspective and we all know that humans are capable of normalizing anything....i say live as you wish to dont be pressured by society as long as you happy its all that matters at this point.☺️

hlahla :

first time ndiva someone who has my mind 🥰, sijole forever

Lumanyano :

Every Phase matters in the Relationship same as the role of the marriage plays a different role. Once we tend to differentiate these things that's when we are being able to get clarity on the types of Relationships and roles. Let me create a scenario of being a boyfriend my expectations shouldn't be of a Husband when we are dating Basically for myself as boyfriend my role as boyfriend will differ as a Husband. When we are dating we have no vows that we are committed to it. People should seek for help it's not normal of being scared to take accountability and be committed.

Dj Thelox :

u were married

Vangile Sithole :

She's right with the family pressures 😅

preshigalpacy :

okay l understand l just want to understand what happens with the surname for the kids

Meza❤ :

Talking from experience

Lenny :

most relationships end after marriage

Mpho Mofokeng :

Yes, ladies please hear out.

BREE'Z NAILS :

si jolelani in the 1st place? this takes me back to this question:"what's the purpose of having a partner?why should we have partners/lovers?"

SarahM :

i waited till the 6th year and I left and left dust

Ms Ray✨ :

@_abigail_6 :

Thank you my darling

Hildegard Grace :

this is what I want bathong

ntando :

yes

🌺Kgadi🌺 :

It's not always marriage because it failed in the 2 to 4 years When you get into a relationship u need to go in with true intent Tell the other I'm not in it for marriage I just want to date or open relationship etc Don't string people along worse involving kids why have kids in it

Sean Mokhethi :

Marriage is actually spiritual…

babzo💕 :

I get that a lot I’m in 10yrs relationship

relebohile :

Am i wrong to want this but I know my man won't agree 😂

NoxoloB :

Thank you, I love her Iyo this is so powerful ✊💯

Chantel :

People don’t know the meaning of marriage 😩

Bolefatle :