There’s also a difference between looking at someone for a split second and thinking “dang they look hot” then looking away and carrying on, and just staring at them and thinking that they are wearing that for you. When someone takes they’re shirt/sweats off at the gym, I’m not thinking they’re doing that for me, I’m thinking they wanted to cool off or get the mind/body connection by seeing their muscles move with the workout
2026-10-14 20:01:58
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Chocolate chippppppcookiez :
They should see what we wear to Pilates which are mostly women classes.
2026-10-16 07:17:42
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81jamesacct :
yeah, im sick of being called a hoochie daddy in them
2026-10-15 01:02:55
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KaceFace :
There also needs to be an understanding that we are humans, and we are going to look (regardless of what you’re wearing). And sometimes I myself as a woman look if a woman has a strong body that I admire, or a man that has a physique he clearly worked hard for. I think anyone who feels sexualized in those situations of being looked at, really need to reflect & if your fear is being sexualized, you can in fact make different clothing choices.
2026-10-14 21:36:30
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Z_in_Charlotte :
People wear and present themselves EXACTLY as they want to be seen.
2026-10-15 10:56:39
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Irene B. :
Looking is not the problem (i look), staring is.
2026-10-14 23:10:08
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carolina_pizano :
Men need to take that extra second to THINK, they don’t.
2026-10-15 19:16:14
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Lizzarino :
I love my lulu tanks on the golf course because they breathe nicely, I like the tan lines, and this one specifically has a built in bra. The goal is not to show off titties and capped shoulders, they're just along for the ride
2026-10-15 11:16:19
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Meman :
Glancing is fine 😭 no one cares just dont stop what ur doing and stare for a long period of time and being a creep while making comments is!!
2026-10-15 14:37:13
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stephanielizbethh :
Honestly it’s too hot to dress modest while lifting, running or hot Pilates 🙂↔️
2026-10-15 15:49:17
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Isaac :
As I’m wearing my short shorts 😂
2026-10-14 21:56:38
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Lluvia Vera :
Legit
2026-10-14 19:41:20
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Carolina 🍉 :
2026-10-14 23:22:40
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AK :
W take!!! Love this
2026-10-15 02:11:10
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Lan :
I wear leggings & crop top, if it gets super hot in the summer months I’ll go down to a sports bra. I’m still mostly covered, but do I not get to be comfortable too 😭
2026-10-14 21:24:12
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Cesar Gomez :
its that easy
2026-10-14 20:00:28
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P :
Its just the fashion. They dont want you looking unless they find you attractive lol
2026-10-14 19:29:37
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Davi :
Yes, just stay out of commercial gyms… better un interrupted and focused workouts exist in natural environments.
2026-10-14 21:50:48
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Stefanie | CT :
wow good job 👏🏼
2026-10-14 19:44:54
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Zhana || Pilates 🎀 :
It also can be difficult when the fashion is geared towards that. I constantly struggle with this and sometimes I do choose to wear the really short shorts. The way fitness is advertised to us and the trends with active wear makes it hard to avoid those type of clothing. You have to go out of your way to buy the more covered up clothing and then your brain is programmed to believe that you don’t look as good wearing that
2026-10-15 15:23:12
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Missa :
It’s literally so much more comfy. I hate leggings and things on my legs working out. So short shorts it is. I’m literally looking at no one and can care less if anyone wants to bring their energy down by putting it into someone else by me🤷🏻♀️I’m getting my fit on and that’s all I care about
2026-10-16 15:13:43
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User051400061913 :
I mean I go wearing leggings and a tank/short sleeve top and they still look. How much of it is really the clothing?
2026-10-18 15:51:06
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sunkissedsweetheart222 :
I work hard 2 look like this. I’m not covering shit 💁♀️
2026-10-27 18:54:58
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