@oopsiez: Car dependency normalizes fear of each other. #carculture #publictransit #transit #community #urbanplanning

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lasmodeuse
lasmodeuse :
As a woman, sometimes the fear is justified and even proven friend
2026-10-15 02:45:54
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bebs444_
debs :
well the community is pretty damn scary so
2026-10-14 23:53:00
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ahahahahaitsbones
Ahahaha Bones :
For all the women saying “I’m scared” many working class women take public transportation. We can not take away or shame a good service but rather improve upon it for the good of that working class woman.
2026-10-15 03:34:54
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arizonagreenteacanz
Shay<3 :
All these “as a woman..” comments bro you think poor intercity women have the choice, I grew up in a 2 bedroom apt with 6 ppl in Miami we HAD to take the bus and metro
2026-10-15 10:43:02
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dylan_ispeeing
Dylan_ispeeing :
out of touch
2026-10-15 01:17:55
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tj13745
JP :
A lot of “oh so you hate waffles” in here today
2026-10-15 06:01:55
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its_sherrrr
Sher <3 :
I’m a woman and i take public transportation every single day to work. You learn to be aware of your surroundings. But also love your community. Befriend your bus drivers!! Talk to the coaster conductors. They will look out for you, especially if you connect with them.
2026-10-15 07:53:39
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shroomiebabi
𝖘 :
everyone saying as a woman, but i have spent over 500 hours on the greyhound this year and haven’t once felt unsafe. like i get the sentiment obviously, but leave bro alone😭
2026-10-15 11:46:08
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prismotwm
ella.🕯️🌛 :
yk id so totally agree but im a woman so i don't really have that privilege of feeling safe on it
2026-10-14 21:23:18
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noiam_arealperson
real person :
maybe if i wasn’t a woman
2026-10-14 21:25:34
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taromaroboba
𝓜𝓪𝓻𝓵𝓸𝔀𓄧 :
Not everyone in the comments proving you right. Of course there are nuances to everything, and women have a right to be fearful of men, but at the same time we need more people to use public transportation. A lot of people don't care to try and figure out what they need to do to make their city safer, one they just opt for "well I'm afraid so I give up". Ask around to see what your local systems are like, do research, learn to defend yourself if need be, and give it a shot.
2026-10-15 02:32:47
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timxmoby_fanpage
🪷🌱Elena🌴🌺 :
Being a woman is exhausting
2026-10-15 05:25:06
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puffyxdreams
dennise :
I see what you mean, but as a woman that had to ride public transport out of need while I was in college working, I did not feel safe with people (esp men) staring at me or trying to talk to me. I really wish public transport would feel safer and that I hadn’t gone through multiple negative experiences to have made me dislike it and made me encourage other women to not take it
2026-10-16 01:56:45
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notaschoolgirlcrushh
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as a girl whos been taking the metro and bus system in la for majority of my life, being able to befriend the drivers and metro security workers has made my trips sm safer. ik the area and who i can go to for help and everyone is usually rly kind. also a lott of woman on the bus or metro too. it may be daunting but i hate that public transportation is perceived as unsafe.
2026-10-16 00:51:15
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roberto_ripp
Roberto Ripp :
Amtrak doesn’t go to the suburbs tho
2026-10-14 20:24:40
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watrwitch
WATRWitch :
I love taking public transit!!! lived car free for 23 years in Chicago (had to get a car due to a career change/driving to remote worksites). i still take the train or bus on the weekends instead of driving
2026-10-15 22:06:24
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s3lf.l0athingg
DINA☭ :
the only thing I'll ever fear is having to chase after a bus in the winter time again😭
2026-10-15 22:32:43
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bob_ceviche
bob_ceviche :
AYYYY SHOUT OUT TO BAY AREA PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION 🗣️🗣️🗣️
2026-10-15 16:52:16
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biathatanos
biathatanos :
these comments bruh
2026-10-14 21:35:04
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whimsika
sika :
I am scared of my community, as a woman I have to be scared or I get followed home
2026-10-14 23:09:30
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trying.my.somewhat.best
mariana🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩🇭🇹 :
I am a woman and take punlic transit, I agree there is a privilege with this thinking HOWEVER the only way public transit can improve is for people to actually use it and we can justify putting more money into it to make it safer.
2026-10-15 17:08:16
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zepolonad
warren ⚙️🚷 COMMS!! :
i love trains, i love lightrails, i love buses. yes, occasionally there are creepy people, but they have never threatened me or made me feel uncomfortable to the point where i was scared.
2026-10-15 03:14:01
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watersatnight
nocturnalflowerchild :
I’ve had more fear in lyfts & ubers than on the bus
2026-10-15 05:09:11
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wh0r3chacha
wh0r3chacha :
Having a car reduced my commute by hours! Like yes I still support it but its unfair to not recognize some of us dont live in central areas of the city where there are trolleys and buses 😭
2026-10-14 21:43:35
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po0kiebear69
Pooba 🫧 :
My mom literally put in my head ima get SA and trafficked if I step foot out of my house by 6 pm and now I’m so anxious to do anything alone 😭✌️
2026-10-14 21:43:16
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