@ruirui5614: Sometimes someone we love tells us they're struggling. And because we care, we immediately start thinking about what to do. What might help. What should happen first. How to make things a little easier. I think I've done that more often than I realised. I was listening to the situation. But perhaps not carefully enough to the person living through it. You told me you felt lost. I heard you. I knew things were difficult.But I never really asked what that feeling was like for you. I thought I understood enough to help. Now I wonder whether I was moving ahead of you. Maybe before we work out what comes next, there's something simpler I could do. I could listen a little longer. 你说你很迷茫。我想了很多办法。却忘了认真问问你。你心里的迷茫。到底是什么样子的。 #listeningwithlove #relationshipunderstanding #rui

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