@mackenzieherman: Leaving before the relationship even takes off is a classic avoidant move. If this has happened to you, let me know down in the comments below. #attachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #avoidantcycle #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidance
it was only 3 weeks but it was the best 3 weeks i've had in years
2026-10-14 20:52:12
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Baelor :
It was almost 3 months of talking. We never dated. He tryna softlaunch avoidant style so i immediately blocked his ass off.
2026-11-03 08:33:39
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easyryder7 :
What does the avoidant typically feel after ending one of these intense short-term relationships? Do they experience any delayed grief or regret once the initial shutdown wears off or is it too short for them to ever care about?
2026-10-14 21:33:17
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indiaaaaac :
it was 3 months 😃
2026-10-14 22:17:55
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Martin ✞ :
Happened to me. We talked for a month and became official within 2 weeks after meeting for the first time. She decided we should breakup a month later. The emotional whiplash I'm still going through is terrible
2026-10-14 22:27:01
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Andreee3k :
Yeah that's crazy this literally happened to me. 7 weeks though. It's been 10 weeks since we broke up. Do you think she will ever reach back out? I hope she remembers our time together
2026-10-17 12:07:11
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Dee 💋🤎🍫 :
Those 3 months were better than my 5 year marriage 🙃
2026-10-15 12:27:03
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Dr. Flora :
Do they do this with everyone?
2026-10-14 21:51:13
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RunMom :
Avoidants need to just NOT get involved with anyone. I'm still dealing with the fall out. Tried to be friends with him. He wanted to come with me and support me at my marathon and acted all excited and then just didn't come through. After his last text disappointing me, I just didn't respond. I just decided I was done. He couldn't show up and be in a relationship when we were a couple, why did I think he could show up for me as a friend? I'm just done. So done!
2026-10-14 22:28:07
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phurn333 :
She actually became my girlfriend and was very excited to be but left after 3 weeks when she met my parents.
2026-10-14 21:27:18
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Gareth Morgan :
my now ex randomly dumped me last night. we were planning future trips, our whole lives, now she is apparently overwhelmed with life despite the fact i was her safe place. and in her desperation to get me to block her she said she didnt love me, didnt fancy me and missed her exes... how can someone go so cold?
2026-10-19 17:29:39
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king :
I need your advice, my avoidant just unblocked on Facebook after a year no contact, should I contact her ??
2026-10-14 22:14:27
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betheclubtoday :
“This is going perfect you’re giving me my freedom and taking it slow” two days later: “I think you’re going too fast and I need my me time” 3 months wasted with a girl I’ve had the most chemistry with in my life
2026-10-15 04:11:23
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Tman :
I hear they will always check on you is that true or no
2026-10-14 22:25:30
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Cago :
It lasted 2 months for me, then got randomly ghosted one day! I just hope he someday realizes that he’ll never find another one like me! All I did was love him! 💔
2026-10-14 21:43:02
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kat ✨ :
yep. and now they’re in a wholeeeee relationship.
2026-10-15 05:49:30
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Heather :
Just happed to me 45 days felt like 6 months and I got whip lash one day by the abrupt change.
2026-10-14 22:24:29
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Mizzjojo81 🏳️🌈 :
It was 3 weeks for me
2026-10-15 05:29:21
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Leyah2705 🇯🇲 :
100% correct
2026-10-15 23:25:01
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Hi-Dee :
It was manipulation at its finest
2026-10-14 23:55:52
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Laylah ✨🏳️🌈💪💋🖤✨ :
It took 6 months
2026-10-14 23:34:33
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Potatuh_Chip :
5 months instead, 1 day a flip switched and I mean nothing to her now. blocked everywhere, its been about 2 months now and im still broken
2026-10-15 21:45:06
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zxokage_6r :
Woww Literally you described everything very clearly and in detail 😲
2026-10-15 01:09:19
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Sarah :
Going through this for 4 years and I have no idea why I haven’t just walked away
2026-10-14 20:42:32
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LinzerzBrooke :
8 months :(
2026-10-15 00:39:02
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