@mackenzieherman: Leaving before the relationship even takes off is a classic avoidant move. If this has happened to you, let me know down in the comments below. #attachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #avoidantcycle #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidance

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youngieness
Youngie :
it was only 3 weeks but it was the best 3 weeks i've had in years
2026-10-14 20:52:12
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baelor48
Baelor :
It was almost 3 months of talking. We never dated. He tryna softlaunch avoidant style so i immediately blocked his ass off.
2026-11-03 08:33:39
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easyryder7
easyryder7 :
What does the avoidant typically feel after ending one of these intense short-term relationships? Do they experience any delayed grief or regret once the initial shutdown wears off or is it too short for them to ever care about?
2026-10-14 21:33:17
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indiaaaaac
indiaaaaac :
it was 3 months 😃
2026-10-14 22:17:55
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5.0fx2
Martin ✞ :
Happened to me. We talked for a month and became official within 2 weeks after meeting for the first time. She decided we should breakup a month later. The emotional whiplash I'm still going through is terrible
2026-10-14 22:27:01
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andreee3k
Andreee3k :
Yeah that's crazy this literally happened to me. 7 weeks though. It's been 10 weeks since we broke up. Do you think she will ever reach back out? I hope she remembers our time together
2026-10-17 12:07:11
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doublecauldrontrouble
Dee 💋🤎🍫 :
Those 3 months were better than my 5 year marriage 🙃
2026-10-15 12:27:03
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floraphd
Dr. Flora :
Do they do this with everyone?
2026-10-14 21:51:13
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runmom7001
RunMom :
Avoidants need to just NOT get involved with anyone. I'm still dealing with the fall out. Tried to be friends with him. He wanted to come with me and support me at my marathon and acted all excited and then just didn't come through. After his last text disappointing me, I just didn't respond. I just decided I was done. He couldn't show up and be in a relationship when we were a couple, why did I think he could show up for me as a friend? I'm just done. So done!
2026-10-14 22:28:07
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phurn333
phurn333 :
She actually became my girlfriend and was very excited to be but left after 3 weeks when she met my parents.
2026-10-14 21:27:18
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gazzm84
Gareth Morgan :
my now ex randomly dumped me last night. we were planning future trips, our whole lives, now she is apparently overwhelmed with life despite the fact i was her safe place. and in her desperation to get me to block her she said she didnt love me, didnt fancy me and missed her exes... how can someone go so cold?
2026-10-19 17:29:39
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bigboss77334455
king :
I need your advice, my avoidant just unblocked on Facebook after a year no contact, should I contact her ??
2026-10-14 22:14:27
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betheclubtoday
betheclubtoday :
“This is going perfect you’re giving me my freedom and taking it slow” two days later: “I think you’re going too fast and I need my me time” 3 months wasted with a girl I’ve had the most chemistry with in my life
2026-10-15 04:11:23
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tman1148
Tman :
I hear they will always check on you is that true or no
2026-10-14 22:25:30
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swaggysee
Cago :
It lasted 2 months for me, then got randomly ghosted one day! I just hope he someday realizes that he’ll never find another one like me! All I did was love him! 💔
2026-10-14 21:43:02
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kitkattcos
kat ✨ :
yep. and now they’re in a wholeeeee relationship.
2026-10-15 05:49:30
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walking_in_the_clouds12
Heather :
Just happed to me 45 days felt like 6 months and I got whip lash one day by the abrupt change.
2026-10-14 22:24:29
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mizzjojo81
Mizzjojo81 🏳️‍🌈 :
It was 3 weeks for me
2026-10-15 05:29:21
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leyah2705
Leyah2705 🇯🇲 :
100% correct
2026-10-15 23:25:01
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slothfulgoddess
Hi-Dee :
It was manipulation at its finest
2026-10-14 23:55:52
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_queenlayah_
Laylah ✨🏳️‍🌈💪💋🖤✨ :
It took 6 months
2026-10-14 23:34:33
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potatochippin
Potatuh_Chip :
5 months instead, 1 day a flip switched and I mean nothing to her now. blocked everywhere, its been about 2 months now and im still broken
2026-10-15 21:45:06
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zxokage.6r
zxokage_6r :
Woww Literally you described everything very clearly and in detail 😲
2026-10-15 01:09:19
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mellowsarah22
Sarah :
Going through this for 4 years and I have no idea why I haven’t just walked away
2026-10-14 20:42:32
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linzerzbrooke
LinzerzBrooke :
8 months :(
2026-10-15 00:39:02
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