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If you defend yourself after being hit, and you get consequences from the school, THE SCHOOL IS THE PROBLEM.
2026-10-15 15:38:41
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Beach City :
Nope, they hit back and I'll take them to a theme park or to the movies on the days they're suspended
2026-10-15 15:06:43
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Derek Huffman :
you rock they shit
2026-10-15 02:57:28
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cathy brubaker :
NO. All that does is encourage the bully to keep on doing it!
2026-10-15 02:10:57
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krik :
I was physically bullied in 8th grade. (1984) My dad was tired of me whining about it - told me the next time I didn’t defend myself he was going whoop me. Next day this bully and I went at it. I was suspended for 3 days. Never seen my Dad so proud of standing up for myself. Also I Never had an issue with that person again.
2026-10-15 13:50:16
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Lena 🇭🇹 :
No..we hit back harder and reward with ice cream
2026-10-15 18:16:59
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Pragmatic Printz :
no. give them 10 times what they give you
2026-10-15 09:49:07
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BaSurvivor_x3 :
Nope your wrong
2026-10-14 23:15:58
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Gary Downs :
No fuck that if my kid gets hit, we will celebrate when they beat the shit out of that other kid I don’t care what punishment the school gives
2026-10-14 22:20:15
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planet1776 :
Nooooo. no no. Defend yourself or it will never end
2026-10-15 20:07:10
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Jose :
Soft parenting never works, no one will bully my baby girl period
2026-10-15 12:36:15
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:
I’m going to tell them that and to hit back. Pick what battles you want to deal with
2026-10-15 20:39:25
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tlanealane :
What your child hears when you tell them to not hit back is, that they are supposed to just take the abuse and the parent is okay with that. I don't care if my child gets punishment too. It is not okay for another child to harm them. They will not be forced to just put up with abuse
2026-10-14 22:28:53
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Matthew Paul :
thats called self defense and we teach the hell out of that
2026-10-15 18:46:00
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Nurse Peaches BSN, RN :
Not at all
2026-10-15 19:56:51
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thatkhaoticsagittarius :
Won’t be checking out that book
2026-10-15 20:14:55
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Tiana B. Clewis :
Nope. In this house, we don’t start mess, but we will finish it every time! You don’t get to bully or abuse anyone in my household without consequences from this household.
2026-10-15 20:35:22
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jordanmama2016 :
I will always go to bat for my child. if he is defending himself he will not receive a consequence from the school especially if the school is aware of the bulking and has not done anything
2026-10-15 20:32:53
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Mz Chee :
No. im just gonna pick up my kid and hi-five them for standing up for themselves win or lose.
2026-10-15 13:13:43
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Terry Carpenter :
Don’t start it but finish it. Protect the weak.
2026-10-15 10:43:38
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mimmzy :
Its not about the consequence from the school, it's about making sure the bully and anyone else knows they cant pick on you without their own consequences
2026-10-15 15:41:54
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Bev J :
naaaah because when you do it back they think twice next time
2026-10-15 11:00:04
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fairmarketUSA1 :
Hmm, no, I don’t agree with this. I get that you’re trying to avoid consequences for the person who was initially hit, BUT the bully gets the message that they can do whatever they want with no consequences. We can see in society how this is working out already. So that’s a big no.
2026-10-15 01:07:08
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Gremlin :
No… every actions has an equal and opposite reaction 😌
2026-10-15 04:53:04
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Zelashnida :
Yeah I'm so glad I didn't follow this advice growing up. The bully I had was never punished and ended up bringing a knife, just to see if he could get away with stabbing me. lucky that was the day I decided to defend myself, even if I got suspended
2026-10-15 15:43:44
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