@verniqueesther: Don’t let me get started on helping people process Job’s story 😭 #deconstruction #traumatherapist #deconstructingchristanity #deconstruction #exvangelical

Therapist Vernique Esther
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shaniquawk
Shaniqua Karanja :
Amen sister!!!
2026-11-03 02:09:01
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poohdinni6
poohdinni :
But they need to read the Bible for themselves
2026-11-02 17:44:30
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rayeayriel
𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞 🎀 :
what actually helps with this? i feel like i struggle alot with faith and just being scared of doing it wrong
2026-10-15 18:42:28
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bosslady_osm
Christy🌹🌹🌹 :
Jesus AND Therapy
2026-10-27 20:59:09
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rev.dr.cruz
Rev.Dr.Cruz :
Bad theology is indeed traumatizing. And good theology is good pastoral care. I only preach good news! That God’s love is toward everyone and Jesus has already done all the heavy lifting; God is making all things new, including our hearts and minds! Thank you for being part of that good work, friend💐💐💐
2026-10-15 17:18:33
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tyannaellisse
Tyanna Ellisse | Holy It Girl✨ :
Also keep in mind I’ve found that many people look at God through the lens of the relationship with Their parents. So if their parents operated that way sometimes it’s hard to accept his love and grace even if their pastor says so. I see this as a common issue. Even if they see it in scripture, it’s hard to unlearn that way of thinking.
2026-10-29 15:04:38
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interestinghowppl
Interestinghowppl :
I lowkey agree with you but I think you are kinda beating up on pastors. You are right the church is vastly undereducated on context and historical facts of the text so alot of sermons are taken outta context.
2026-10-15 18:59:23
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tjrose75
tjrose75 :
While I agree that all biblical stories are not meant to be normative, I would not be upset with a pastor framing the Moses example, for instance, as there are some actions we can commit whose consequences do disqualify us from certain particular aims, goals, dreams, etc. But the good news being, there is still life to live, redemption opportunities, goals to attain, all is not lost, etc.
2026-10-15 17:38:42
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its.stephanieagain
Its.stephanieagain :
But if the sermon is empowering, they call it motivational preaching 🙊 who said that 👀
2026-10-21 19:51:16
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watch.herbloom
sincerelyJ0✨🌻 :
And in the heavily biblical private schools where theology overrules education. 😖
2026-10-15 23:05:57
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ladyofthebloom
Ladyofthebloom :
Girllll this!!!!
2026-10-15 12:31:39
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mykiabb
My’kia Sharmyne| 🎶📚🧠 :
Yes!!!!
2026-11-01 15:42:31
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decemberlov33
decemberlov33 :
Preach! As a marriage therapist… I’m 🤏🏾 close to telling clients please find another church. 😩
2026-11-01 16:04:46
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kay.angelique
Kaykay :
This is good.
2026-10-31 18:45:03
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talkswithtiff_
Tiffs World :
Thank you🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
2026-10-26 15:32:39
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danigurlblack7
daniGurlBlack :
This is sooooooo good
2026-10-27 12:50:57
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missbeemack
Brittney :
2026-11-01 05:01:18
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poohdinni6
poohdinni :
Job is an alegory.
2026-11-02 17:44:04
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moppinmichaela
moppinmichaela :
Can you expound on the common misconception that “God is going to make you work hard for things”
2026-10-16 01:41:44
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tee724755
tee72 :
2026-10-17 14:44:22
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kellsfin
Kellie :
Whew…..
2026-10-21 14:18:17
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lightningmaxline
Lightning Maxline :
thx for the work you do
2026-10-16 10:42:00
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rootedriss
RDenee’ :
All this. 💯.
2026-10-22 11:39:05
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lifeofrobin.a
Lifeofrobin.a :
Preach
2026-10-22 04:40:42
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shebahoney7
shebahoney7 :
🙏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
2026-10-15 12:20:14
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