@verniqueesther: Don’t let me get started on helping people process Job’s story 😭 #deconstruction #traumatherapist #deconstructingchristanity #deconstruction #exvangelical
what actually helps with this? i feel like i struggle alot with faith and just being scared of doing it wrong
2026-10-15 18:42:28
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Christy🌹🌹🌹 :
Jesus AND Therapy
2026-10-27 20:59:09
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Rev.Dr.Cruz :
Bad theology is indeed traumatizing. And good theology is good pastoral care. I only preach good news! That God’s love is toward everyone and Jesus has already done all the heavy lifting; God is making all things new, including our hearts and minds! Thank you for being part of that good work, friend💐💐💐
2026-10-15 17:18:33
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Tyanna Ellisse | Holy It Girl✨ :
Also keep in mind I’ve found that many people look at God through the lens of the relationship with Their parents. So if their parents operated that way sometimes it’s hard to accept his love and grace even if their pastor says so. I see this as a common issue. Even if they see it in scripture, it’s hard to unlearn that way of thinking.
2026-10-29 15:04:38
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Interestinghowppl :
I lowkey agree with you but I think you are kinda beating up on pastors. You are right the church is vastly undereducated on context and historical facts of the text so alot of sermons are taken outta context.
2026-10-15 18:59:23
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tjrose75 :
While I agree that all biblical stories are not meant to be normative, I would not be upset with a pastor framing the Moses example, for instance, as there are some actions we can commit whose consequences do disqualify us from certain particular aims, goals, dreams, etc. But the good news being, there is still life to live, redemption opportunities, goals to attain, all is not lost, etc.
2026-10-15 17:38:42
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Its.stephanieagain :
But if the sermon is empowering, they call it motivational preaching 🙊 who said that 👀
2026-10-21 19:51:16
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sincerelyJ0✨🌻 :
And in the heavily biblical private schools where theology overrules education. 😖
2026-10-15 23:05:57
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Ladyofthebloom :
Girllll this!!!!
2026-10-15 12:31:39
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My’kia Sharmyne| 🎶📚🧠 :
Yes!!!!
2026-11-01 15:42:31
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decemberlov33 :
Preach! As a marriage therapist… I’m 🤏🏾 close to telling clients please find another church. 😩
2026-11-01 16:04:46
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Kaykay :
This is good.
2026-10-31 18:45:03
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Tiffs World :
Thank you🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
2026-10-26 15:32:39
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daniGurlBlack :
This is sooooooo good
2026-10-27 12:50:57
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Brittney :
2026-11-01 05:01:18
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poohdinni :
Job is an alegory.
2026-11-02 17:44:04
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moppinmichaela :
Can you expound on the common misconception that “God is going to make you work hard for things”
2026-10-16 01:41:44
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tee72 :
2026-10-17 14:44:22
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Kellie :
Whew…..
2026-10-21 14:18:17
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Lightning Maxline :
thx for the work you do
2026-10-16 10:42:00
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RDenee’ :
All this. 💯.
2026-10-22 11:39:05
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Lifeofrobin.a :
Preach
2026-10-22 04:40:42
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shebahoney7 :
🙏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
2026-10-15 12:20:14
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