Elethu Bhele™️
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Thursday 15 October 2026 04:52:46 GMT
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Ivana Mogodi :
Like anxiously attached people want constant emotional assurance because they never had it as kids 💔
2026-10-15 08:55:01
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Ashley Madden🫶🏽🐑🇿🇦 :
During my therapy sessions, I also learned that I have daddy issues because I grew up with a present but absent father- mind you, we stayed in the same house since my birth😩
2026-10-15 11:13:35
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Vanessa🩺 :
Mine is affecting me rn guyyyyyy
2026-10-16 02:37:31
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🌻 🌻J🌻 R🌻 🌻 :
My childhood won't show up cause my romantic relationships don't exist
2026-10-15 08:50:29
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cookies and cream🏳️🌈 :
wrong. I can morph personalities so you won't believe me if I share my childhood
2026-10-15 15:40:34
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BlaqAphroDiety :
Oh wait until you become a parent, romantic relationships are small water
2026-10-15 10:31:02
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Gillian💕 :
It’s true. I grew up with a single mom so I because hyper independent and the provider in my relationships coz all I ever saw was my mom providing and “being the man” I kept attracting men I would mother and take care of. While depleting my own energy and not having anything reciprocated. Once I addressed my childhood issues with both my parents, that pattern stopped coz my brain was made aware that it was unhealthy
2026-10-15 13:11:04
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Aamari_ :
That's why I took a step back from them and did some self introspection 😭😭
2026-10-15 22:36:47
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sanele :
People always focus on mjolo and I hate that. Let’s talk about how it shows up when you THINK YOU CAN BECOME A PARENT. Let’s wake THAT conversation up.
2026-10-15 07:40:55
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lehlohonolo.S💕 :
Even in friendships😭😭😭
2026-10-15 16:18:24
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MaZwide𝄃𝄃𝄂𝄂𝄀𝄁𝄃𝄂𝄂𝄃 :
Actually they show up in all the forms of relationships including work place
2026-10-15 11:56:05
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🌻 :
Even in friendships hey ….
2026-10-15 15:55:48
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Itumeleng 🌸 :
My therapist showed me this pattern. I lasted longer in toxic relationships because of my parents marriage. I have changed now.
2026-10-15 07:21:25
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💕Nunu💕 :
I’ve noticed when someone is angry and silent I quickly assume I did something to upset them without considering they are just going through personal things . I understand that growing up I was given silent treatment as punishment and was not given love , affection or even a simple conversation with a parent as a result when someone withdraws certain things I always blame myself for it and then start trying to please them or apologize when I didn’t do anything wrong . I really don’t know how to stop myself because I feel immense guilt.when I tell someone this they say “ you think everything revolves around you or you’re self centered “ 😭 no I was raised to think everything bad happening was my fault as a child I’m just trying to change that now because ain’t no way a 11 year old can make you angry as an elder to a point where you stop buying them clothes or saying hi while living in the same house !
2026-10-15 13:46:59
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JAY Z is Beyoncés Bitch :
it’s too early
2026-10-15 05:36:51
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Thandiweh :
Oh yes, romantic relationships expose me so huge
2026-10-15 04:55:34
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𝒪 :
True, that’s where your true self shows and you’re forced to deal with your traumas.
2026-10-15 06:10:00
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white lemon 🍋 :
eyyy I saw that when I was talking to someone 😭 I saw right there that ha.a I need help
2026-10-15 05:11:18
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Naledi Manzana🎀 :
In raising your kids also 😩
2026-10-15 09:47:18
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Cyamthanda🦋 :
you're being forward yaz
2026-10-15 10:51:20
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Shadikele :
Jokes on you, I’m single🦦
2026-10-15 07:26:28
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Lusanda Keabetswe :
I'm currently going through that 😭😭
2026-10-15 05:26:39
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Venus :
this is why i’ll never do romantic relationships
2026-10-15 14:06:55
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And it’s sad really specially if haven’t you introspected
2026-10-15 09:19:29
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Makwande🧚♀️💗 :
like😭😭 I learnt that the hard way
2026-10-15 05:23:38
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