@taniakhazaal: The worry that kept your child safe is now the reason they won't speak to you. The story doesn't stay with your child. Their partner hears it. Your grandkids grow up with it. I called my own mom toxic for years. I wasn't describing my mother. I was describing what it felt like to be me around her. My pain was real. What I said about her wasn't. The day I stopped needing her to be the villain, I got my mother back. That's the work I do every day inside The Renewal Collective. I help you understand what your child is really saying, and how to reach them so they can see the mother you've always been. P.S. On October 26, we start The Family Around the Silence, my 7-day challenge where I'm with you every single day, not only repairing your relationship with your child, but healing every relationship in your family that's been affected by it. #parents #lifecoach #MomsofTikTok #mindsetmotivation #parentingtips