@lisasonni: “Here we go again. You’re stuck in the past. You never let anything go.” But somehow, he can bring up everything you’ve ever said or done—even things from before you met—while you’re not allowed to bring up his past behavior. That’s the double standard. His history is “the past.” Your history becomes evidence against you. Pay attention to who is allowed to remember—and who is expected to forget. #EmotionalAbuse #DoubleStandards #CoerciveControl
Absolutely! They can bring up their childhood trauma as justification for their behaviors but the minute you bring up something they did, suddenly you’re the one who can’t move on.
2026-10-15 20:26:04
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Xochi :
The past will be a constant and continual conversation. Betrayal trauma and repair necessitate certain actions rooted in consistency. This is completely aside from the double standard of entitlement, manipulation, and abuse
2026-10-15 21:08:49
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user1258531579396 :
I lived this!!
2026-10-15 21:56:08
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LIFE COACH LINDA :
Right on the money
2026-10-15 22:57:42
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chelle :
bet your ass im bringing up the past cause your still doing the same shit
2026-10-15 22:19:33
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