@kat_braden: Being protective means caring even when there's no competition

Garrett Sepulveda :

Walking on the curb side of the street, staying up late to listen to their worries, making someone apologize for rudeness, holding the door so they go into a room/building first, taking them to the doctor when they feel sick.. THATS protection. It’s the little things that means the most❤️‍🔥

Kyle :

Ooh, so well said!

go gym & drink your coffee :

she is beautiful

withlove.stacy_🕊️🦢🤍 :

And honey I am BOTH. Protective and selfish.

☆ ☆ ☆ RiCardo LarenZo☆ ☆ ☆ :

You’re amazing Kat ❤️❤️❤️

L🕷️ :

Stop being so great and making me fall in love with you

Walter Gonzalez :

truth.thats why i will change the 🌍🦸for the love of my life 🌹👍👼🧔👼and toguther.where my strength comes.👍

luca :

I want someone to be truly protective over 😭 I can so vividly imagine myself doing those things, walking on the street side so she doesn’t have to, holding doors open, getting her things she wants if she’s sick, etc. but I don’t have that, and I hate that fact.

JodyGooby :

Everything you say is always spot on

brydude07 :

i love your brain so much

Nick54 :

im both

ben root :

Facts!!!!

Jamie-CurrentlyUnderRefinement :

Ugh right

turnmaine :

feeling love from someone else 😭💔🙏

🍗🦃LILY🦃🍗 :

First

Samantha 💚 :

Can I be both? I want to make your life less stressful, make you food, check in, and take care of you when you’re sick but I’m also the seagull from Nemo 🤷‍♀️🤣

user64235678 :

So good ❤️

not_hello1 :

first

Paula MendiolaYuiiiiyt :

❤️❤️❤️

ᡕᠵデ𝕰𝖍𝖕𝖔𝖓𝖎𝖓𝖊ᡁ᠊╾━ ⌖☠︎︎ :

EARLEYY and this is so true

blessed55 :

What if I’m both? I’m protective of mine and when sick or what she wants? What if all I do is love then what?

gøøn :

The 2 can be true at ones, you can be a protector all the time as you said, and get "possessive" when someone trying to overstep in your relationship, we all have our insecurities and trying to dismiss such a primal feeling like the fear of losing your partner it's just childish.

For Love With Love ♥️ :

You may understand the difference, and some men may understand the difference, but the many women don’t understand the difference, and plenty of us have gone to great lengths to protect our relationships; we are present, we show up, we’re protective of the integrity of what we are building, we communicate, and we pour into our person in the relationship, and we do what we can to add to the life and goals of our person, and all that got us was being taken for granted… you can be protective of your relationship and still have it ripped away without warning. People are not invested in relationships like they used to be. Clearly, far too often people think the grass is greener elsewhere.

karina_psychologist :

Keegan Shumaker :

thank you for the advice