@erikagrundon: when the avoidant doesn’t want to go to bed and the secure goes to bed without them #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantbehavior #secureattachment #anxiousattachment
mt problem is that avoidants always needs space no matter what it's like genuinely so exhausting even when you're secure, cuz they get so selfish about it with literally everyone they date. strict as fuck with their partners. while getting all the validation they need from everyone else.
2026-10-16 06:47:11
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code_name_anoobis :
Staying up to message other people and get validation lining up their next conquest.
2026-10-16 09:48:00
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adelakarin :
wait what are we looking at here?
2026-10-16 09:30:14
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Sara Cruz :
I feel like this is a metaphor. The avoidant thinks it’s a game.
2026-10-16 08:09:45
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𝓀𝒶𝓉𝓇𝑒𝑒𝓃𝒶 🤍 :
you kept making me yawn😭😭
2026-10-16 07:44:45
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gabby :
yup mine worked 5am clear till midnight, but at times we had these conversations, I woke up for intimacy and he was was playing a game called, Mind field, where u spent hrs building a ship and searching for rocks? yeah..
2026-10-16 08:12:19
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Kat😺 :
Love this queen
2026-10-16 04:59:14
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Sirozhene Pirozhene :
2026-10-16 05:51:34
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xo_cheyennee :
My husband refuses to go to bed with me & then gets in and out of bed 500 times, waking me up. I tell him I want my own bed & then he gets mad. Like bro, f u.
2026-10-16 10:12:15
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J.M.L :
😂😂
2026-10-16 06:17:50
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