TherapyJeff
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willygreturns :
“You have the right to feel mad but not the right to be mad” HOLY BARS
2026-10-16 20:05:09
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🇵🇸🦎NewtsNCats🐱🍉 :
Not to oversimplify this but this explains cat behaviour
2026-10-16 13:21:03
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jmks :
This person's whole thing is punishing other people for her anxiety, despite recognizing she's doing it
2026-10-16 16:10:38
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Allison :
I was part of this study. I behaved like a secure kid but I was not a secure kid
2026-11-03 05:05:18
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Renee7948 :
My late husband Robert helped conduct those studies. It was fun hearing the backstories.
2026-10-16 16:31:27
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Madeleine McAdam :
Omg I’m screaming
2026-10-16 14:46:59
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I'm Nix :
too much tiktok for today
2026-11-04 06:42:22
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Airheaded Aviator :
That sounds exhausting
2026-10-16 15:51:33
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🏴Alice :
Aww that means both my kids are secure 🥰. Bad news is I'm avoidant though
2026-10-16 14:18:45
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Apple User368369 :
It’s also important to point out this is abusive behavior and it’s important to know the cause behind but also important for those who may relate to hold themselves accountable
2026-10-16 16:37:06
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caliglid :
i’m extremely introverted and my bf works from home so i feel relieved whenever he’s out😭
2026-10-16 15:57:02
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John :
How do you break up with somebody else’s girlfriend?
2026-10-16 20:21:22
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user7349O694674O58 :
Well this was eye opening. 😅
2026-10-16 18:54:35
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BlerdyBytes :
This video makes me feel so vindicated
2026-10-16 17:50:47
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yarpbarker_son :
i love being disorganized. i get a bit of everything
2026-10-16 17:59:39
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Amy Anderson :
The anger after they leave isn't actually about them leaving — it's protest behavior. Anxious attachment reads separation as danger, and anger is the nervous system's last-ditch effort to close the distance. The work isn't "stop being angry." It's teaching your body that someone walking away doesn't mean you're being abandoned.
2026-10-16 16:22:06
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Candace Frisbie :
I'm not judging y'all for having the angry feelings but I am judging for taking them out on your partner. Like what the hell? they literally did nothing wrong. How do you not see that and realize it's a you thing and work on it?
2026-10-16 23:59:57
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Lilianafletch87.2.0 :
This hits so hard as a former foster child who then had kids. I felt like such a failure that they got so upset when I had to leave. 😔 glad they got to be normal.
2026-10-16 18:44:37
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Valeriedeedee :
This answers so many questions. thanks for sharing your expertise.
2026-10-16 13:06:19
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babycoco.music :
bro so i’m disorganized attachment
2026-10-16 15:47:05
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King Double-U :
I'm avoidant, everyone and everything lets me down and makes me angry, so I just doom scroll, cry then put on a happy face and carry on like nothing happened
2026-10-16 17:50:38
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portable container :
unfortunately i’m the toddler who can’t accept comfort after 20 minutes. how do i fix this?
2026-10-16 15:38:17
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Shane :
wait is avoidant/axious/secure scientifc? i thought it was more like astrology 😅 theres proper studies on babies on this behaviour?
2026-10-16 19:41:13
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BnX :
And I still don’t get why everyone isn’t avoidant. Like of course I’m going to play with the blocks. Crying, pacing, or whatever doesn’t fix the problem. Since I can’t fix it, I may as well either try to reduce stress (play) or as an adult, try to prevent future stress (work). The other reaction just don’t make sense to me.
2026-10-16 17:11:12
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ƑʉͫcͧкͭιͪηͣFuffie :
Awe my child runs up and hugs me 😭😭😭🥲🥲 I’ve created a secure child as an anxious person.
2026-10-16 21:02:48
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