I can’t imagine not postponing my wedding if my sibling was going through this!
2026-10-16 18:10:36
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Adventures.With.Meee :
Who needs enemies, when you have family like this
2026-10-16 15:43:19
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VanityDeadly✨ :
Brother is a selfish jerk. Time to cut him off
2026-10-16 15:30:54
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migothka :
sorry bro I didn't reschedule.. *checking notes*.. having literal cancer
2026-10-16 16:09:11
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jenna ✨ :
People severely underestimate how much surgery takes out of you. It can take weeks to be back to normal depending on the surgery. I went to the grocery store a week and a half after back to back surgeries and I felt like I was going to pass out halfway through.
2026-10-16 20:08:41
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Adriana 💛🇦🇺🇨🇱 :
he came to the ceremony 😅 like that's fair already. nta brother is TA cut him off
2026-10-24 22:24:53
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Corilyn :
I'm a cancer survivor and the fucking audacity! Trust me, it is not the same pain. It is not the same exhaustion. This would have had me go no contact.
2026-10-16 19:17:35
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Devyn Quinn :
Wait till younger bro find out cancer CAN COME BACK...
2026-10-16 15:47:18
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BeckyBH :
I would disown any family member who treated me this way. Gross
2026-10-16 15:29:46
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Aranza 🏳️🌈 :
if my sister has even a twisted ankle I'm postponing my wedding so she can dance with me.
2026-10-23 15:32:57
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PhemSoul🏳️🌈 :
“I always seem to be an afterthought” tells me this is about their childhood dynamic that the brother hasn’t actually worked through/dealt with. He probably felt ignored growing up with a sick sibling and hasn’t actually unpacked that. OP is NOT the a-hole and the brother needs therapy.🤷🏾♀️
2026-10-16 18:45:52
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IamMz_Shey :
He was at the wedding! The fact he wasnt at the reception because he was in pain and exhausted from everything he had been through, the brother is a jerk.
2026-10-16 16:18:02
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cintiakindalikesmakeup :
i think it's so weird that people cannot make a difference between feeling sad abt sth and being angry at someone. cause it's okay to be sad that your brother had to leave early and wasn't there for the toasting but why tf be angry about it?
2026-10-16 16:47:46
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Kate Kozakova :
My friend stopped by my wedding for just five minutes. It was only a week after his grandmother had passed away, and I couldn’t have been happier that he made time for me, even if it was just for a little while. ❤️best 5 minutes in my wedding❤️❤️
2026-10-16 18:32:28
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𖣂 ꜱᴘᴏᴏᴋʏ 𖣂 :
Why can’t people just be open when they’re upset with someone? Ghosting and giving the cold shoulder to someone is so cowardly.
2026-10-16 15:37:42
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cstephaniem17 :
So he didnt miss it. He attended the ceremony even tho he just had surgery but bc he was too sick/exhausted to go to the afterparty.
2026-10-16 20:25:02
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Gemma H :
So he went to the ceremony and he’s annoyed he missed the party 😳😳 just wow
2026-10-16 17:12:40
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The Girl Mom 🙏🏼🇯🇲🇺🇸🇳🇬 :
NTA by any means. Does the brother have a heart, or does he think the whole world revolves around him?
2026-10-16 16:31:23
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Elizabeth🇺🇬 :
Comparing a separation to post surgery discomfort and pain is WILD.
He also attended the actual wedding, that IS the most important part
2026-10-17 04:19:31
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Zee :
Is his brother actually insane?
2026-10-16 16:43:11
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meifgt :
This story made me mad every time it found a way to my feed. And the update is crazy. OP is better off without his relatives.
2026-10-16 15:47:38
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10 :
Ppl with chronic illness always get their pain pushed aside because it never goes away. As if the person suffering from chronic illness wants to be feel like that and have ppl petty them when in reality they wish to be pain free. The brother doesn’t understand this because he’s never been through health issues.
2026-10-16 22:01:31
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Collet Collins :
OP is NTA. My opinion is, the brother is a sociopath.
2026-10-17 04:51:11
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Tahty :
Screenshot that and add it to the group chat
2026-10-16 16:29:26
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Jaime_Travels :
Family or not, he would never hear from or see me again.
2026-10-16 22:21:06
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