@nick_werber: If your relationships keep leaving you exhausted, look at the role you learned to lead with. The helper, the people pleaser, the perfectionist, the hero. They kept you safe once, and now they can keep people from really knowing you. Do you relate to this one? ➡️ If this resonates with you, I'm teaching a program called Inner Child Work for Black Sheep that starts October 22nd. Details are at the link in my profile. ➡️ Follow for more black sheep content. #blacksheep #peoplepleasing #cyclebreakers #innerchildwork
I mean, when I’ve been authentically myself with others, they’ve always stabbed me in the back. And it’s not like there’s anyone else.
2026-10-16 16:05:53
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sherbearshilhoe1996 :
That's just it. Now that I am realizing I am tired, I am creating boundaries and nobody in my current life really want to get to know ME. Not one person gives a damn about me but are interested in what I am not doing for them.
2026-10-17 02:59:34
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😱💀Scared_of_Skulls💀😱 :
There is a balance you need to find though. A lot of people pleasers end up becoming more avoidant in time and put up too many boundaries. Its about being able to say no but also knowing when to invest in that relationship or friendship. its a balance of sacrificing that i feel a lot of people pleaser have trouble with.
2026-10-18 16:23:28
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Bcl345 :
I’ve stepped away from my roles as much as I can…am noticing when I slip back into the patterns now which is huge b/c I can makes choices then. In the meantime, I am loving being by myself until I figure out what I enjoy w/o taking care of everything! 🤓😏😆
2026-10-16 17:43:54
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gibtoks :
hi - sorry for side question : what brand of mic is that?? 🙏🏻 thank you for your work…
2026-10-19 17:25:04
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Angie Wenzlaff :
I see this but it's a struggle to change. I am definitely trying
2026-10-17 01:11:09
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Samyah_art :
It's not worth it guys.. enjoy your own company, do the things you love and give to those in need anonymously.
2026-10-17 14:57:49
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Lunarblisss :
What if i wasn’t special?
2026-10-17 17:41:57
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suebhoney🐝🇺🇦 :
They willl exploit you..
2026-10-18 12:20:35
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FLOODWATERS PRESS :
I appreciate what you have to say, and I feel like your identifying areas that no one has ever addressed, even after years of counseling, but where do we go from here?
2026-10-18 01:52:54
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Apple User279533431 :
Oh so true. I can’t trust anyone. And I will only let people in on a surface level. I have one friend and my husband and my daughter. I guess I’m really blessed! I have three people!
2026-10-16 23:15:11
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FurTribeMoma :
I wasn't special as a kid I was neglected and abused I don't know anything to do to be special?
2026-10-18 13:11:33
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lelliebean :
This is me. Besides stopping the people pleasing, what can I start doing to have deeper friendships?
2026-10-17 04:05:35
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Greg :
How exactly being stoic creates barriers? I thaught that part of me was the healthest one
2026-10-18 03:50:12
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Vicky Newham/Izzie Harper 🇬🇧 :
I have been the one who worried about everyone else's feelings & abandoned my own. But that's been changing.
2026-10-18 14:28:29
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Liz neal :
Interesting
2026-10-16 18:02:31
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Warm WiFi :
You've got a point there 🤔
2026-10-16 19:58:19
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ceekellee :
Thank you
2026-10-17 13:20:51
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Ripley :
ugh 😭
2026-10-17 00:13:04
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*~ creative ~* :
Needed.
2026-10-17 14:04:27
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Hannah :
😐
2026-10-17 00:05:40
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