@iammarkmanson: Any couple can look great on a good day. Watch how the two of you recover after the next fight.

Marian 🥰 :

I knew my husband loved me when i literally burned the tv his PlayStation his stereo his computer and he was consoling me not mad no yelling and he is still so sweet even when he is mad 🥰

🦍 :

basicly saying . if she does not leave when u strugel she the one 💯

reset :

one green flag

Jenny :

What if your partner is a dismissive avoidant and can’t repair? I tell him what’s upset me and all I get is defensiveness and deflection. Has taken me 20yrs to work out what’s going on as I’ve been blaming myself. Resentment bucket full and now leaving to find happiness alone 🥰

Peachy Shelf :

💯. Married 24 years and by far the biggest contributor is the ability to repair and compatibility of repair styles .

melissadormuth :

How do I test this ?

Mirjam N. Schmidt Mortensen :

Uhm so I divorced my husband that was great at talking after a fight (and there where MANY fights) and fell in love with a man who is very unskilled in talking after a fight - and there is almost no fights 😅

user6719947101124 :

yeah, but how can you ever test for that? because people who know they are difficult will hide this in minor conflicts in the beginning

A.D🗣️ :

Are you married yourself??

GoodHeart MINA 😘🥰😍 :

Don't minimize Love. Without Love its nothing. All things together! Respect, Love, Consistency, Love, ....

KazumitheSprigatito :

well, he doesn't have that... he treats me so badly when I let him down

sky sky ☕✨ :

green flag means the point you can use them as your emotional advantage or is the point you can actually be okay with the flaw you have

Thierry :

So one person doesn't get the green flag, They both get the green flag even if they both wave the biggest red flags.

Marc :

facts

Міла Таро :

Oh yes, how somebody treat you when you love them. That’s the flag that you should carefully check up on.

Qate ᥫ᭡. :

Happy to be here early …

LISA 🪳 :

You wrote Will Smiths book?

Gynexpression :

True 👌

bbN2♒︎ ¿ :

natbytejazzhistoryteacher :

It’s true

Mindset Mentor :

So true. But what if one person always apologizes first just to end it — is that recovery, or avoidance?

User one :

Sounds pretty boring

Theodore :

Girls, don’t listen to this man saying not to worry about red flags. He’s speaking from a place of privilege

AnnLadner :

KEEPING ON EMPOWERING LIVES ❤️@Kayla Owen | Day Trader

AnnLadner :

Love you 😘 @Kayla Owen | Day Trader