@letterstothehealing: One of the most painful things about being cheated on is that you can end up questioning yourself over a decision someone else made. You start wondering what she had that you didn’t, what you could have done differently, or whether you were somehow not enough for the person you gave so much of yourself to. You replay memories, search for answers and struggle to understand how someone who knew your heart could put you through so much pain. But please don’t let someone else’s betrayal become the reason you stop believing in your own worth. You can acknowledge that they hurt you, accept that you may never fully understand their choices and still find your way back to yourself. You deserved honesty, loyalty and a love that didn’t leave you questioning whether you were enough. ❤️‍🩹 #HeartbreakHealing #HealingJourney #BreakupHealing #Heartbreak #Heartbroken

cowgirltx66 :

Going through this right now my heart is broken and the tears are pouring down

lulu🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 :

My husband had been having an affair for nearly 10 years, I found out 8 months after our beautiful 23 year old son died, I was already broken, I'll never ever forgive him.

micheleslonaker :

I told my husband “you knew that if I ever found out it would destroy me and you did it anyway. That’s not love that’s your selfish ego.”

💕 Miss Kerry-Ann 💕 :

This just described my experience to a T left me broken and scared to move on again

Manjinder Sarkar :

Yes so true

Call me Rethesa :

Got cheated on while pregnant led to high blood pressure delivered my baby boy before he was due, through c-section, 12 days later got to know he cheated on me after delivery, a 10 years relationship, how do I heal? What do I do ? I’ve decided to stay while I get things sorted for myself n my boy, housing, finances, n help as I’m still recovering, acting like he’s just a friend, what do I do ? I’m pumping , breastfeeding, still in the hospital cos me n my baby have to be monitored, it’s too much for me

Heart of pain :

Problem is the damage is collateral and scars long term

Angela💜Marie :

Well it will BE HISSS LOSS NOT MINE🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻💯

Letters to the Healing :

Betrayal

Christy Jones :

yes. that is me

latixia :

Yes

Lady K :

Truth

Michael Thompson :

This is so true, unfortunately. After a while, things that were once exciting andvto be looked forward to become normal and mundane. Then, all of a sudden, someone, or something, vomes along and re ~ignites that missing spark, making the person feel great about themselves again, and unfortunately, the person, or thing tbat was theit whole life, suddenly isn't. Good communication, ideally face to face , in private where you are not going to be disturbed is key This sort of thing has gone on forever, it's just the advent of social media has brought it more into the open.

me :

True for me and after 37 years of marriage

adventureswithbek :

I’m currently at the spending months trying to understand stage 😭

Noreen Keenan :

gem :

Me !!!

Letters to the Healing :

Heartbreak

tez :

true

Dawn 🌻 :

her problem now! Good riddance you monster. I am me and I am enough! I am strong I am loved and I will make it without you. No doubt. 💪🏻

Laura Ottley :

I felt it alright

JosDogWalking :

Yeah and now I’ve decided I can’t take anymore of trying to fix us I’m the bad guy 🙄

holly :

hit me right in the heart, his gone off living his life, new partner after 4 months and im still here questioning and breaking why 😭

Lintown :

foung out about cheating after 11 yrs and it was with a guy. He said he didn't think it mattered and I wouldn't have given him a chance. then found he chatting on craigslist 4 months in and then a couple months we moved in he was email a guy about a threescore. I NEVER HAD THE OPTION TO NOT GET INVOKVED!!!! NOT ONLY THE BETRAYAL THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WAS A IE

Ali HA :

a wicked man will do this yes but a virtuous man will marry both of them.