@hebas_haven: It comes down to how a man feels about himself when he’s with you. But more importantly..who are YOU BEING inside of that relationship? Because the woman who naturally creates that emotional pull isn’t relying on tactics to get her husband to pursue her. It’s who she’s become👑 She’s a woman who’s done the inner work She’s learned how to work through her resentment and frustration without emotionally dumping on her husband over every little problem She knows how to be his peace without abandoning herself in the process She’s a woman who knows how to appreciate her husband without putting him on a pedestal She accepts him for who he is without trying to fix every little thing about him She trusts him enough to give him space to lead, but she’s also able to challenge him, hold her boundaries, and speak up when something doesn’t sit right with her. (We’re not being convenient just to keep a man happy ladies 💅🏼) She can give him space without becoming anxious, overthinking, or feeling the need to run back for reassurance She’s not suppressing her needs to keep the peace She’s learned how to express them in a way that invites connection rather than creating more disconnection She doesn’t have to work harder to make the relationship thrive And this is especially important for my highly driven women You’re used to figuring things out, taking initiative, and making things happen. You know how to get results. But the same instinct that makes you exceptional in other areas of your life can have you overfunctioning in your marriage This isn’t about learning tactics to get your husband to pursue you. It’s about BECOMING the woman who no longer feels the need to work so hard to create that pursuit This is the kind of inner work we do inside Elevate, my signature 10-week marriage program.We work on the woman you are being inside your marriage And if you’d like to learn one simple way to create emotional attraction, DM EBOOK and I’ll send you my free Marriage Fairy Ebook🧚🏻♀️
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Friday 16 October 2026 16:19:34 GMT
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Shohan :
What if it's the husband doing the "talks" with the wife if she's lacking in communication and isn't caring
2026-10-30 03:13:00
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random random username :
islamically it's actually a man's obligation to have good companionship and hang out with his wife. it's not on the wife to keep asking him, she's done her part
2026-10-18 07:13:13
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Daniel :
Yup. I go fully insane when i get into a relationship
2026-10-16 22:14:58
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AlSaharaLLC :
Boys probably. Not men though.
2026-10-16 21:19:21
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SimbaHTX :
This is a great point because people often overlook that everyone, including men, are also looking for spaces where they feel emotionally safe. It’s a natural human inclination to want to spend time in places where there’s safety
2026-10-17 15:43:45
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Comfy socks only :
Im tired
2026-10-17 15:31:10
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User64475424 :
Hmmmmm what?
2026-10-16 21:38:21
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xoxo :
Disagree I think they do things completely off of logic .
2026-10-18 16:11:29
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Empress Collective :
This is true.
2026-10-17 08:29:22
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zalinaaslanova98 :
that's so annoying. so selfish
2026-10-19 19:45:00
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Tweet Book ⛎ :
fatigue
2026-10-17 17:19:37
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Ebook
2026-10-29 10:32:59
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Amal Abdullahi :
They are selfish and are only motivated by their own pain, give him his pain and he will listen or hear but your pain means nothing to him.
2026-10-16 20:48:43
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🐈⬛✨fifi 🥀📚☕️ :
This has to be ragebait.
2026-10-17 01:29:01
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fab4262 :
No an unhealthy and unhealed man can never be satisfied or motivated by anything unless he gets in touch with himself. I’ve been raising a grown man for over 20 years. He is entitled little boy who refused to grow up and now we’re all paying the price of his ego and childish behavior. He knows how to cheat lie manipulate and abuse but can’t do anything when it comes to himself.
2026-10-16 22:17:35
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AmBer :
Sorry, but this so misogynistic. Why is always the women responsible for the behavior of a man, and why should she always "raise" him to fulfill common needs? He is a grown up and responsible for his decision. If he prefers his family more than his wife, than he should not have married in the first place. Imagine a woman behaving like him. I doubt that there would be much tolerance on the man's side.
2026-10-19 01:28:19
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PrivateK6 :
Absolute nonsense, men think through logic, women think through emotions. If you want your husband to spend more time with you, make the time fun and enjoyable and be specific. Can we spend time after dinner and not be on our phones, maybe talk or go for a walk. Men can't read women's minds
2026-10-17 08:23:36
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Naz2481 :
This is so stupid, im unfollowing
2026-10-16 17:56:04
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Meredith :
So your saying to treat man like little kids?
2026-10-16 20:40:28
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Puteri Iylia625 :
idk why i sense male centeredness in ur advices
2026-10-27 06:03:56
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the_green_jellybean :
Fgs grow up - he’s entitled to meet his family just as she is.
2026-10-18 03:55:38
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Yusufmorrell :
Which basically that is logical (that’s why women don’t get it). But if I said how do feel at a 5 star hotel vs 1 star hotel? Big difference, right? You need to provide your husband with 5 star hotel treatment. If you can’t then 4 star or 3 star but definitely don’t expect to put in 2 star or 1 star treatment.
2026-10-27 17:39:00
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RamenHairRuby :
😁😁😁
2026-10-18 09:51:24
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S N :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-16 20:23:14
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