@bustuh: I’m sure we’ve all met the peace protector that doesn’t protect themselves from themselves… #protectingmypeace #emotionalintelligence #relationshiptalk

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bsbl.jadon
jadon :
put this on her fyp not mine😂
2026-10-17 00:43:44
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theejaysama
Jalen :
It never sits right with me that the people who need to see this kind of content are allowed to skip it
2026-10-16 18:33:36
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emilyssa30
Emilyssa_ :
You get it
2026-10-16 21:31:19
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rchavezrb26
Gabbagoo :
When an outside source is filling the missing pieces of the relationship is when that peace is being protected.
2026-10-16 18:00:25
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i___hopie___i
i___hopie___i :
Yeah he cheated, for me to stay I told him what was needed now. I didn’t get it and for some reason he started to go distant and dry and I begged for clarity and of course was scared he was cheating again but he wanted to keep his peace from me.
2026-10-17 16:42:04
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josephserpa2
Jay✌️ :
Can you tell me if I'm the problem? I'm in anxious attachment and with a avoidant attachment wife. It's been emotionally hectic for me, because two weeks ago I found out she was talking and seeing another guy and I kept hearing promises cutting him out with no weight to them. Today to protect my peace of mind, and do pry the safety net she's running to the other guy for. I gave her the ultimatum for her drop him today and show me the physical evidence to give me some evidence of her still wanting to try. I chose myself when she hasn't been choosing me.
2026-10-16 18:15:28
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slymmb
slymmb :
When people say they need peace, what they are saying is they relate peace to silence, or agreeable vibes.
2026-10-28 11:41:42
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michaelguti51
michaelguti51 :
Both people need to put their pride/ego aside and accept that they are both part of the problem and solution. If you haven’t asked yourself at least once: In what way am I contributing to the lack of peace in our relationship? You might be getting blindsided by your emotions/old wounds.
2026-10-17 19:20:50
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thad_e_daddy
thad_e_daddy :
Apparently I was too needy and they didn’t have the bandwidth to participate in the relationship as I told them it’s not a codependency relationship let’s come up with a solution and execute
2026-10-16 23:51:02
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scjeep4.7ho
Richie :
someone that i care about a lot says this and is funny how it seems like it's more about avoiding work then protecting anything.
2026-10-17 01:18:58
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nannerzz07
Anna-Marie Williams :
Wish I could send this to him. 😒 He don’t understand what that phrase actually means. Sir you cannot “protect your peace” until you stop being THE drama.
2026-10-17 01:47:20
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da.painter3
Ken C. :
Brotha you are 💯 % correct. Usually protecting your peace means escape from being accountable in some situations.
2026-10-17 03:08:13
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bbennbwdz9i
CaliOKgirl :
Well my boyfriend just blocked me so I guess he is protecting his peace after he accused me of stuff that wasn’t true! Always accusing me of cheating so I will give him his peace!
2026-10-17 02:28:20
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duddydoright
Christopher :
Needs to be on their FYP!!
2026-10-16 22:52:31
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terrinicki
terrinicki :
This is very eye opening 😶
2026-10-16 21:12:54
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brenaraa0
brenaraa :
Uhhh coming from a lustful relationship where I had no peace, protecting your peace/seeking peace is actually the best way to go when you haves kids. This advice should only apply to ppl who are married and are in Love. You have to ask God to help you open up your heart more.
2026-10-16 23:32:39
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willieetv
¿WiLlEsia? :
Wow I needed to hear this
2026-10-25 21:39:41
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the.bosu.queen
the.bosu.queen :
Amazing point friend!! Also, I’ve really enjoyed seeing your growth on here in the past year. Keep it up Allen! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
2026-10-16 16:58:29
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brandonarvay
Brandon :
THIS VIDEO 1000000%
2026-10-16 17:35:03
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pinkbanz
pinkbanz :
Why df is this on my fyp
2026-10-19 22:58:10
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kylewyman231
Kyle Marvin :
I hope to find someone who loves me for who I am, not just what I can offer.
2026-10-17 20:28:44
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z989656
S :
I had a woman I was dating for 3 weeks. She played games, was hot and cold, talked about her exes. I addressed it, she fixed it, and then tested me with bs. She wanted me to do relationship things without being my girlfriend I put my foot down. I told her you can either be my girlfriend now and I can give you more, or we can keep dating until that becomes a thing, but you can’t have certain expectations of me. She then began to attack me. Every gift I bought her, was fake or something was wrong with it. She would take it as far as damaging things to prove a point. My career and life was fake, and if I didn’t prove it otherwise by showing her my id, passport, bringing her to my house, having her meet my family, and coming with me to work, then I was a fake and a liar and not trustworthy. I tried to find a solution and still have my privacy because we still are strangers, but she then ended things saying I am not her person because I didn’t do what she wanted when she wanted it. We were doing well and she cared for me a lot, I know that the people around her and her insecurities were involved in this decision. I treated her well and I never talked to her again. She was my first and who you talk about. They will never compromise, apologize and repair.
2026-10-18 21:58:16
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tokio.882
Tokio 88$ :
this should be on her FYP
2026-10-23 07:04:28
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rebb168
Tino :
Now this is giving my peace! Truly!
2026-10-23 08:20:23
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