I cut off people who are abusive, manipulative, liars, users.. Why would I need people like that in my life ? and if others aren't doing that, I ask WHY..
2026-10-16 22:50:32
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peanutbutterkelleytime :
They create their own narrative whether I explain it or not.
2026-10-16 18:55:03
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ImOnABoat🛳️ :
I avoid those convos, bc in my experience, it gives them more ammo to spin their story. They gaslight and try to tell me I'm crazy. I got tired of this. They will spin a story regardless. Sheep will follow.
I'm done trying to explain myself to someone that isn't with my energy.
2026-10-16 18:00:17
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Illuma :
Pffff imagine trying to explain a cut off to someone toxic. 😂 I'll be the villain byeeeee 😂
2026-10-16 23:56:06
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✨PrettyWise<333 :
Because respectfully…I don’t need to explain myself to everyone, the ones who care can come at me with curiosity and learn to ask.
2026-10-16 19:41:55
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J :
Neurodivergence vs neurotypical
2026-10-16 18:38:53
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staypositive59_set :
Im so tired of explaining myself.. people judge me anyways. Yeah it’s a bad habit.. I always get hurt at the end.
2026-10-17 04:09:49
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Nunya Bidness :
I don’t want a relationship with anyone who listens to gossip.
2026-10-16 18:57:55
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🌌ironmaidenjay🌌 :
I don’t gotta explain a mf thing, I know who I am at the end of the day. I let my actions speak for itself even if people assume the worst. That’s their prerogative. Let me be the villain baby 🥰
2026-10-17 01:06:43
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Magister Williams :
Sounds like a them issue
2026-10-16 20:07:06
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Jerry :
who's ok with being slander and deflamtion by people you thought cared about you
2026-10-16 20:16:04
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Mercedes :
they don't ask 🤣 why would I explain something they weren't interested in knowing? if they wanted to know they'd ask.
2026-10-16 21:39:51
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Jennifer :
People always know what they’re doing. It’s never a snap decision 😊
2026-10-16 17:22:14
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all dogs go to heaven :
No one takes accountability so I don’t owe them anything
2026-10-16 19:06:02
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Gamechanger :
I’m not In the business of explaining myself to people who are committed to misunderstanding me or my motives
2026-10-16 23:55:33
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SkepticUnicorn 💙 :
I don’t care what they assume 🤷🏻♀️they don’t deserve an explanation and honestly wouldn’t listen even if I did. They know what they did and they know why I moved accordingly.
2026-10-16 18:48:34
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Mathuam 1 :
I miss your laugh baby girl ♥️
2026-10-16 19:55:46
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loveandboundaries :
They are going to talk anyway and there is no reason for me to hide 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
2026-10-16 18:58:15
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Jesse Hickman695 :
Let um
2026-10-16 18:04:45
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paulettephillips71 :
it is repeated behavior and when it keeps hapoening to me or to someone I love I come to the decision that I do not want this person. because nothing changes. its the same thing just happening to a different person. i cannot let someone be apart of my life and am just watching because I dint want this larer in future hapoening with my kids. I dont have to say anything to anyone who should know its not okay to treat people that has hurt us for years. I just cant
and realky dont care what people think you dont understand unless you been on the side of the one who was put through crap. i dont want to save relationships that only has worked out to not be good for me. past and present.
2026-10-16 18:21:31
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kristenbrokenimageog :
The universe understands and the ghosted understand very well.. What other choose to judge, is in them, not me. Its protection
2026-10-16 17:34:10
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Mar❌️ Legacy :
I find that others opinions bring out their intentions. because of silence.
2026-10-16 19:37:28
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katicreatesinchaos :
LET THEM!!! They talked in the past, present and will in the future. I wasted so many years trying to defend myself to people that aren’t worthy of my energy. The right ones stayed. The haters can hate 😂🔥🔥🔥
2026-10-16 19:28:44
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Jerrilynn Rice :
Former overexplainer here and they still drew their own conclusions
2026-10-16 18:45:13
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WebbDillard :
a lot of people should be fiction writers.
2026-10-16 20:16:23
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