@prophetolabisiadamu: MEN DEY!!!! Wow I'm shook!!! After watching the video excerpt by pastor B, I came to a conclusion that a lot of single ladies have unrealistic expectations about marriage, if you have listened to me closely you already know no I do not support mediocrity and idleness, I am not in support of irresponsible men nor am I in support of women who think a man's responsibility is to fund their entire lifestyle. I strongly believe a man must take care of his wife, but please let's be realistic. Where do you expect a 33yr old guy to get money for a Range Rover??? Or rent you a duplex in Banana island, put you and all your kids on business class? Babes c'mon let all things be done in moderation. If you put a lot of pressure on your boyfriend he will keep dragging the wedding date or he will tell you he has not heard God. Even your wedding budget expectations can scare a man away, decoration of 15-35million when he earns 600k monthly All this fake lifestyle inspo needs to end, if your parents give you 35m for wedding deco and you don't have an extra source of income please don't spend it, divert it. There is a whole life to be built after your wedding day. I know planning with the wrong guy who ends up dumping a lady that has been through thick and thin with him can be painful but still, ladies we must build. My husband did not look like this 15yrs ago, I'm sure if he approached you 18yrs ago you would have said No, I also did not look like this, He invested and believed we had a future together. Discernment is key, look before you fall.
PROPHET OLABISI ADAMU
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Friday 16 October 2026 17:29:56 GMT
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Bigsazy :
Na this girl own pain me pass
2026-10-16 20:21:06
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Travel Agency in Delta State :
mama una guide from beginning ooo, over 10 years ago and una de pay rent of 2.5m
2026-10-16 19:27:48
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1bodycount :
Who use money buy love nor dey pay finish
2026-10-17 04:59:26
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Estty Omah :
You spoke well, ma, but the system is already rigged. We're in the system now, and everybody knows exactly what they're doing. The time you started building and the time we're in now are not the same oo. Things have changed, and the reality on the ground is completely different. 😔
2026-10-17 06:41:44
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Charles Ebube 🥰 :
My own is Just do what works for you
Some men don't deserve that "Building Together "
2026-10-17 06:49:16
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Ruby Robert | Becoming Her 👑 :
I was scared and shaking when I watched that video yesterday! I’m genuinely scared for my generation. 🥹
2026-10-16 17:59:07
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The General :
this one in particular just dey vex me 😂
2026-10-17 00:48:09
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Eloghene Cassandra :
We no want o. Make everyone build on their own. We go meet for center
2026-10-16 22:46:51
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♊ MORENIKEJI 🍷 BABY ♊🍷 :
Alot of them don't know what it's takes to be a man my sister my husband used to collect loan to pay house rent and I do the feeding We thank god today
2026-10-16 22:21:32
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Ruthy :
2.5m 15years ago. Ma please don’t rage baits me. You guide. Do men value good women. Even men are now good digging. Ma talk to the men also, they should build first and we would support. They should stop looking for independent ladies upandan
2026-10-16 20:41:52
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LA QUEEN FASHION EMPIRE :
After all the teaching all I could hear is Men dey oh chim 🤦♀️
2026-10-16 19:49:44
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Pee-Nari :
No vex me ooooooh
2026-10-17 05:07:07
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HIGH-LANDER 🛡️ :
I knew a young lady who said she can never follow her husband and pay rent and i asked her but if a quite notice comes she also will have no roof over her head, she responded saying she will rent a house with her children and when the man has sorted himself out the family can come back together. She feels more comfortable renting 100% by herself rather than putting heads together with her husband and pay for rent for the family. I listened to her and shook my head.
2026-10-16 20:20:08
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Bespoke&ready-to-wear in Lagos :
Make I no talk weytin dey my mind
2026-10-16 22:32:14
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OSITA IKECHUKWU :
The gospel truth is this, both genders have hatred for each other, and it will be difficult for people like us that believe in love to date or marry someone we don't love, but the question is this, do people still believe in love?
2026-10-17 05:05:49
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Dshine :
Madam, well said. But do you know that most ladies have walked that part of building with a man and it didn’t end well, most men take ladies that build with them for granted. I came across a post this evening where a woman was being asked a question if she would allow her daughter marry a rich or poor man she said she would never allow her daughter marry a poor man but a rich man, only God knows what her experience was like. So I am just here to say let everyone do whichever works for them.
2026-10-16 22:02:49
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larrygramms :
Men Dey, go and look for the men and make sure you marry them
2026-10-16 22:53:11
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Okanlawon global solutions :
Mama please don’t lesson them please men Dey 👌👌👌😂😂😂😂😂
2026-10-17 06:52:23
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mudi :
it's not even that they are building with the wrong person, they don't even want to build, they just want someone already made
2026-10-16 21:13:44
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sunky :
mama u guide
2.5m no small in 15yrs ago
men de o
2026-10-16 20:28:46
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Darry web dev. :
As I hear 2.5 million, I no see this one as motivation again.
2026-10-16 22:14:10
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Robert Peter :
The word men Dey has always been people’s husband’s not single rich me 💯
2026-10-16 20:28:56
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thedataanlyst :
as i hear 2.5m, na once i scroll
2026-10-16 20:47:08
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SANTAN🇳🇬🇦🇷💜 :
If my gf can't behave like her then I am not doing
2026-10-16 22:04:47
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Ruby Robert | Becoming Her 👑 :
Bless your heart woman of God. This is why many of us women are single. Unrealistic expectations!!!
2026-10-16 17:58:17
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