Apostle Charles
Region: RW
Friday 16 October 2026 17:41:26 GMT
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Oli Muhizi :
Go deeper Muhizi,😳😳😳!!
2026-10-17 09:39:25
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Eldon Mwiseneza :
We should know our spiritual backgrounds so we can know where we stand 💯💯💯
2026-10-16 17:45:31
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Mushimiye🇷🇼 🤍 :
Ariko x mwaretse tugakora group tukajya kureba Apostle akadufasha Koko
2026-10-16 21:10:35
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girls generations of 2026 :
Imana ijyidutabara murwanda turaremerewe ibintu byarazambye
2026-10-16 21:16:49
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Ishimwe Mama Ashimwe💕💕💕 :
Mana uzandinde iyokarande pe
2026-10-17 06:55:15
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+250 Zakiaty 💋🫶🏾🇭🇹 :
True
2026-10-17 08:45:45
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Mahombi Olive :
akokantu rwose
2026-10-17 05:30:44
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Mushimiyimana Seraphina :
imana ikureho izo karande
2026-10-16 20:17:06
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blessed mom :
watugiye kure ngo ujye mudufasha bikunde
2026-10-16 19:36:49
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Zayn waa F :
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-10-17 05:05:51
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jospa459 :
This is highly debatable; I think marriages are breaking because people no longer know how to love, or have lost the willingness to practise the responsibilities that love requires, especially in marriage. Often, the issue is not simply the absence of love, but the absence of the skills, values, and consistent actions needed to sustain it. Instead of focusing on Spiritual instances(I’m not disregarding Apostle’s message), let's take a look at these more pronounced marriage challenges in the current generation where several features of contemporary life are intensifying existing marital problems. These are not proof that every modern marriage is weaker than marriages in previous generations, but worthy consideration especially for those already in or planning marriage: 1. Instant gratification: People are accustomed to quick results and may struggle with the patience needed to build trust or work through difficult seasons. 2. The comparison culture: Online images of luxury, romance, attractive partners, and seemingly perfect families can create dissatisfaction with ordinary married life. 3. Greater emphasis on individual fulfilment: Personal growth and independence are valuable, but conflict arises when individual desires are pursued without regard for shared commitments. 4. Changing gender expectations: Couples may disagree about leadership, decision-making, careers, domestic work, childcare, and financial responsibility, particularly when they have never discussed these expectations clearly. 5. Easy access to alternative relationships: Dating platforms and private messaging have created more opportunities for secrecy and infidelity. 6. Reduced preparation for marriage: Most couples nowadays enter marriage without sufficient understanding of conflict resolution, finances, sexuality, parenting, or the expectations of their marriage. 7. Pressure to appear successful: Couples may hide serious problems to protect their public image instead of working together out of those problems. 8. Fear of vulnerability: Some people find it difficult to admit emotional needs, apologise, ask for help, or acknowledge their contribution to a conflict.
2026-10-17 06:41:10
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jospa459 :
The key distinction is that modern pressures are exposing or intensifying weaknesses, but they do not automatically destroy a marriage. The couple's choices, relationship skills, circumstances, and willingness to learn & grow through the challenges marriage comes with, are tearing marriages apart. As a Christian already or planning for marriage, take keen note of this Spiritual guidance: 1. Never move away from spiritual and moral values. Galatians 5:22–23 — the fruit of the Spirit. 2. Never neglect spiritual growth together. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 3. Leave pride and unwillingness to forgive out of your marriage. Ephesians 4:31–32. 4. Never practice selfishness and the desire to be served rather than to serve. Philippians 2:3-4 5. Detest spiritual manipulation and misunderstanding of marital roles. Ephesians 5:21 — mutual submission in reverence for Christ. We can blame our failures and weaknesses on our backgrounds but are you willing to make a difference or you’re comfortable with definition of you by other people’s failures? Must we now put it that marriage in present Rwanda is a game of gambling, because families are only focused on finding and collecting bride price instead of preparing their children for a successful marriage? Imagine how rampant divorce is. Don’t these people have successful marriages behind them? Spiritual stuff can sometimes be an excuse 👌
2026-10-17 06:53:18
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