@dearcaitlynn: lovesick #Love #desire #dating #romance #lovesick

Bushido :

I once loved a flower so much instead of picking it, I left it alone. -Osho

☆ JAZ ☆ :

Exactly. Like where do we put those feelings, there’s no where for them to live.

Z :

“You can be wanted without being chosen” 😭

isa :

this is so beautiful and i am also going to throw up

user7133714301743 :

Read a famous love letter once that said something like “if you were ever as fond of me as I am of you, then nothing could keep us apart.” I’m sure there’s exceptions to this but agree right person wrong time is often used as an excuse when one of the people just didn’t want to do it

RGuillen85 :

In the Korean concept of Inyeon it is said that two souls must experience 8000 layers of experience before the timing is right and fate brings them together in marriage

Beatrice Viterbo 🌑 :

The timing is insane 💔

Maggie Artigiani :

I have the answer. Circumstances never matter. Any circumstance you could ever imagine is meaningless unless you decide it means “incompatibility”. The right person is the right person when you decide he or she is. Period, nothing outside of you can tell you the person you love is “not for you” or “not available”, that’s bullshit. Loving and respecting yourself is about thinking in your favor, selecting a favorable perspective for yourself no matter what. Giving up on someone you love bc of circumstances is fucking weak, I’m sorry my dear but if you let circumstances define your perspective/identity you lack self confidence

Bishounentristan :

There is a feeling of grief that comes with it too. Especially when you have to accept that your lives truly cannot work. You hold the hope and love for that person in one hand, while mourning the life that you wish you could have together

some18me :

It is so unbelievably painful.

Nadia 🍉 :

You’re describing my life right now, it’s so difficult to move on 💔

jpeg.gfl :

Going through this very thing and heartbroken doesn’t even begin to describe this kind of pain. The hoping is truly the most torturous part. I keep asking the universe to take away my desire if it isn’t meant to be satisfied. I don’t get it and I have the same exact question as you do in the end; ultimately I’ve just chosen to wait it out because there’s really nothing else to do…

⚔️𝔖𝔥𝔞𝔶 𝔖𝔱𝔢𝔯𝔩𝔦𝔫𝔤⚔️ :

I can’t express to you how grateful I am that you made this video. This is my current reality. It’s the most painful situation to find yourself in. I spent years building my life and this girl randomly decided to walk in. I welcomed her with an open mind into my life not knowing how much she would mean to me… I still love her and the thoughts of having a life with her is intoxicating…It’s true everything you’re saying. It’s not as simple as not compromising. There’s so much to consider and letting go of a life you worked on for years before she came into the picture. So now I just overdose on the thought of a life I will never get to experience with her. It’s like waking up from a bad high and you have to come back down to the reality. You look around and nothing is a potent. Nothing is as colorful but you look over at the painting you have been creating for decades and there’s color there, you know you’re so close to that dream… but it’s not something you have now. Delayed gratification is painful. Leaving someone you wish you could love is painful.

Brooke :

This made me cry. It’s been years and it still hurt and now I’m too afraid to say anything

Espeon :

Gosh I can’t listen to this. I’m too heartbroken.

Andrea Alchemy & Co. :

Cord cutting 🥰

jillianbadel :

Poetry, Caitlyn. I write a lot of poetry. That’s how lol

some18me :

If someone has moved on from this, please share. Currently trying to do this, while still seeing the person frequently, which cannot be avoided, and it feels impossible, but I am trying because this has been lowkey ruining my life for literal years

ana :

Wow. Your video showed up to me at a time when I’m dealing with kind of a heartbreak.

officialarxis :

This hit my soul! 🕯️

carriebirdielawle :

I'm trying to understand this for my husband's sake. He told me he met his twin flame and she is on his mind every single second of every day. He is in pain. And he described a pulling towards her that's indescribable. we have been together for 26 years. what am I supposed to do with this? Like the other woman said they can't be together because he's married. So if I was out of the picture they could be together and have this great love. Do I sacrifice myself? Can he ever forget her if I tried to forgive him? I'm so lost

Lili Hulac :

I’m going through this right now and it is the most excruciating break up I’ve ever gone through, I feel I’ve been cracked open. Trying to trust in the timing of the universe, that if things are meant to be they will be, and that if not, there is something amazing out there for me that will cross oceans to find me.

jadehelmicecreamman :

I wasn’t expecting to open TikTok this morning and it immediately trying to kill me

paxton🪽 :

callmemel :

the only solution that I have came up with is to drop the internal resistance of the thought of me not having him so I should stop thinking about him and instead really let myself feel all the feelings without judging my self. I let myself to imagine him next to me. I talk to him even though I'm alone. before I would have stopped but it is already heavy and maybe if let all the feelings pass through me they will eventually end cause I'm putting it somewhere instead of letting them eat at me and float in my head and heart with nowhere to go