@midlifemayhemwithliz: We had a laugh, got on well… and I felt absolutely nothing. Is that enough to call it a day, or have I written him off too soon? Have you ever gone from no spark to actually fancying someone? 👀 #DatingOver50 #SingleOver50 #MidlifeWomen #DatingInMidlife #MidlifeMayhem

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jaiwfullerhotmail
Tarzan :
you got to fancy each other or it's unbalanced and doomed to fail x
2026-10-16 22:48:01
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seenick1
Nick :
It’s all down to chemistry ❤️
2026-11-10 10:36:01
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tony.b_
tony.b_ :
Either there’s a spark or there isn’t, sometimes it can take more than one date but if there’s no attraction there to start with then you can’t force it 🥰
2026-10-16 19:19:24
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dazza1553
dazza :
why go on a date with someone you don't fancy !!??
2026-10-17 06:00:45
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mudgie73
mudgie73 :
If you don't get that spark then move on. Simple.
2026-10-16 21:24:33
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colindavies41
Col D :
Where are you located?
2026-10-18 01:44:28
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mikalcanehotmail
mikalcane@hotmail :
too picky 😂😂
2026-10-17 01:08:18
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brettjones8273
brett :
im a big beleiver of if you know you know. I knew on first date withe my wife, months together we we're engaged.
2026-10-16 20:56:51
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andrewputman18
Andy :
OMG you’re hard work
2026-10-16 20:10:28
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habibi44amg
Martin :
clean shoes! that’s where I went wrong, damn it 🥳
2026-10-16 20:24:01
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women.who.shine
women.who.shine :
I don’t think the spark’s always there in the beginning. If they’re nice and the chat flows i usually give it a second date to see.
2026-10-17 07:46:51
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patter421
Travis :
why not give them a questionnaire to fill in, to see if there suitable for you 🤔
2026-10-18 10:27:24
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flashbyeme
Paul Bb3456 :
The line comes after 20 years of marriage [Big LOL]
2026-10-17 18:34:26
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ianpearce78
ianpearce78 :
just be truthful 😍
2026-10-17 06:37:22
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kelly_lou2
Kelly :
If I don’t have even a slight initial spark, there’s no second date. I used to because I felt obliged! it was pointless! Why should women have another date with a man they don’t fancy? Men won’t 🤷‍♀️
2026-10-17 08:29:47
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sandra.c9579
Sandra c :
follow your instincts. you are investing your future.
2026-10-17 13:15:09
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amkd62
Alison :
No you’re not too picky. I think you know as soon as you meet them.
2026-10-17 10:23:51
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carolineshort92
Caroline :
No you have to fancy someone lol
2026-10-17 16:53:13
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mrthomas0991
Mr Thomos :
hi 👋 ☺️
2026-10-17 06:26:21
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christinebonham15
chris :
yea its so hard. you cant force yourself to fancy someone.
2026-10-16 20:53:29
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anniet.49
anniet.49 :
It’s not about ‘making do’, but looking for that ‘spark’ on date 1 you are only going to end up disappointed again and again. If you like them, you get on, have aligned values and you don’t feel repulsed, then I’d recommend having a second date. This theory has been well tested!
2026-10-17 19:38:25
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normamcw1
user1239147099786 :
No it doesn’t grow you need the spark, i have tried but it won’t work. Stay single until you find the one 😊
2026-10-17 07:50:26
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user8440927028676
babayaga :
by sounds of it you want to give up
2026-10-16 21:43:36
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carolgreenhalgh
Carol :
no spark, not picky,,, has to be right.
2026-10-17 10:19:04
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sho3ran
Sho3ran :
No, I've to fancy the guy or forget it!! I can't find anyone I fancy 🤔
2026-10-16 21:00:52
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