I got so annoyed I wasn’t allowed to have a bad day because he’d become 10x worse
2026-10-24 23:28:43
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Wan Rozza :
try telling this to an adhd guy
2026-10-18 10:48:17
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arabella.dhami :
Never match her energy. She's the ocean, you're the mountain she crashes against. You diffuse the situation, you don't throw kerosene on it
2026-10-22 08:17:36
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anichiwa :
I feel like my husband is expecting me to be HIS knight shinning armor 😭
2026-10-25 13:52:35
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Fahim x Farnaz :
When I am on my period coincidentally he also is on his period
2026-10-23 14:19:32
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heArty soul • holistic mindset :
This leads to a woman that don’t like to show her emotions
2026-11-01 10:46:17
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sizzlepink :
How do I repost this without suffering the consequences
2026-10-19 05:10:05
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d_lols :
when they literally say ur askingba boy to havd husband material😂 they are alll grown adults.
2026-11-01 13:31:50
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greys :
OMG. YES. When im struggling with something about my personal life, suddenly, he's struggling too and his is so much worse!!!
2026-10-19 04:53:04
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whathaffenvella :
my ex is like that.
2026-11-01 07:01:23
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bullzzz_02 :
Most of them are mad when im mad
2026-10-18 14:29:49
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patricia 🌙 :
oh i love my bf so much, when im mad or not in the mood he just stay there, try not to make me more annoyed, gives me kisses and says ily
2026-10-19 00:23:42
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Ubi Kuning :
Omg!!!! This is what I feel!!
2026-11-01 13:36:19
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Aurium Faye :
and then they will say "tiktok standard is so high"
2026-10-19 14:28:53
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Arjun :
I do this to my fiancé. I'm an empath and I absorb her emotions. I have never realised that this is a problem. I understand. I need to take control of my own emotions and allow her to feel sad, or angry or frustrated. Else she will fear that she can't because I will mirror her and it will get twice as bad. I will learn. And I will be better, for her. This opened up my eyes.
2026-10-30 17:47:16
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ubicilembwu :
when yaaa
2026-11-01 05:23:26
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TattsnCurves Online Shop :
mine gets more angry when I'm angry 💀
2026-10-19 00:54:31
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nyxellea :
and they say "emotional intelligence" is just a tiktok standard. it's not about the word itself, it's about realizing and having empathy about your partner's feelings
2026-10-19 15:38:12
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🦩 :
is this on his fyp
2026-10-18 09:59:51
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maria :
he keeps asking me to what to do and ask me for everything and then when i told him sometimes he gonna said ‘ YOU ALWAYS THE ONE WHO DECIDE!’
2026-10-18 14:59:43
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Miriam 🦇 :
Yup. Anytime I’m not feeling well (either upset or sad or annoyed) my man matches my energy and it drains me even more 😩
2026-10-24 18:59:25
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Shera Dela :
wrong fyp tho, put this on his fyp, not mine.
2026-10-21 17:47:27
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🌻Glads🌻 :
So the avoidant is a toddler, don't be their mum
2026-10-20 06:10:43
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reweaving_kinship :
I have a masters in relational psychology (met) and alyh I love most of his content, I have to say that this disparity between boy and man is actually really hurtful because it still punishes men and contributes to this notion of patriarchy: using a boy as an insult or something to be ashamed of. In reality, boys are the ones that need the most care, most comprehension, and most love.
That's the reason why they turn into these kinds of men that he's describing: boys are told from a very young age that they don't have anyone that they could rely on emotionally.
I would love for these terms to change into something more like a regulated versus a dysregulated nervous system. What he's describing is a nervous system that, when it's triggered, reacts in this very immature, self-protective way from the wounds of survival or patterns of survival.
2026-10-26 17:49:51
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ilios_c :
PUT IT ON HIS PAGE
2026-10-22 17:16:43
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