@itstookate: Update/Clarification: I am currently in CO, and he is in AR. I was supposed to return tomorrow AR tomorrow for some medical appointments next week. A lot of you all are asking/suggesting a gofundme, and as gracious and generous that is, I don’t feel right asking for more crowdfunding assistance, considering how much was previously raised for cancer, legal fees, trying to get permanent housing in CO (a lot went to air bnbs/hotels unfortunately), car maintenance, childcare, and daily cost of living. If I can figure out a co-signer or come up with the full six month lease amount, there is a place I’ve been trying to secure. I’m adamant about this place because I’ve scouted a potential job in the building next to it, there’s a few moms in the area that do a nanny-share and have offered to let my little one join at no cost, and it feels safe. Like home. Protected.
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Saturday 17 October 2026 00:20:54 GMT
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Ms.Overit88 :
contact co prosecuting attorney. show them any evidence you have tell them you are afraid to return not only for your life but your child's. see if they have a safe at home program. missouri does and a few other states do too. it will keep you safe. ive been in it since my son was a few months old. also ask the prosecutor in Co to contact Arkansas prosecutor and discuss things to make sure you and child(ren) are safe.
2026-10-19 08:41:51
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thunder.cricket :
911 dispatcher here and DV survivor - you can request a magistrate to file an emergency protective order and it doesn't matter if he pays rent/mortgage - he can be removed from the premises!
2026-10-17 03:07:21
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Shego :
Hey chat what’s lord Voldemort’s real name? Asking for a friend.
2026-10-17 02:07:58
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janedoe :
CAN I PLEASE HEX HIM
2026-10-17 01:57:21
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RichTyLEO8896MAC :
SOMEONE CALL THE COPS AND REPORT THIS ABUSE IDK THIS WOMAN BUT SHE NEEDS HELP!!!
2026-10-17 03:11:10
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itstookate 🧿 :
I have started a new gofundme based off some y’all’s messages/comments. Please do not feel obligated to donate. You all being witnesses to my experience is helping in other ways. Thank you.
2026-10-17 13:53:27
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Nicole Caissie🇨🇦 :
So he is blackmailing you this is so illegal. I hope you use this in the court of law.
2026-10-17 02:12:55
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Captain Hook & Smee :
i told the trees, mushrooms, and the crows in colorado.
2026-10-17 02:27:33
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Cracktivities :
So blackmail is illegal and what he is doing IS blackmail. Take it to court love. Start a gofundme we'll pay.
2026-10-17 02:47:31
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💋🖤ANG🖤💋 :
I’m so scared for this women 😞 she’s not ok clearly! How do we help?!?!
2026-10-17 02:24:49
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biwitchsam :
That is called reactive abuse. Were they push you to your breaking point and then record it you should look it up. 💜
2026-10-17 01:05:45
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Christina :
Oh my God. Look at where he is putting you, both physically and mentally. This is a hostage video. It's coercive control. And it's blackmail. Please. This is beyond abuse. No matter what you did or said in reaction to his abuse, don't let him use it to silence you.
I'm going through the same threats from my ex. I'm over a year into it. In court constantly. I promise. I promise it gets easier to handle when you realize he doesn't in fact have the power over you he's made you believe he has. He does not.
I said the exact same thing to my ex. That he is incapable of loving our child, because he, in fact, is incapable of loving our child, or anyone for that matter. I stand by that.
As far as you wishing him dead? He is very literally trying to kill you through this stress and coercion while you are going through radiation. That's real. He's actively doing this. Who gives a flying fuck what you wish?! HE'S DOING IT IRL.
A lawyer would never advise you to make a video like this. Do you have legal counsel?
2026-10-17 00:50:21
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🐦🔥FieryPhoenixRising🐦🔥 :
This is coercive control, a literal hostage situation. Can we just gather all the info on this guy and put it together and just drop it in front of a judge to help her get out of this? wtffff?
2026-10-17 02:43:46
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Vic :
We see what’s happening. We see the self soothing. Don’t worry Kate. We understand. We’ve got you no matter what x
2026-10-17 00:46:46
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Lexi Millii ᛑᛗᛛ :
No healthy partner will ever make you feel this way. Leave him.
2026-10-17 02:11:48
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kazztastic :
I grew up in this and now work daily to help those who I can. You can do this, it is hard but not harder than what you’re already doing. 1 hour at a time, then 1 day at a time, and you will get there.
2026-10-19 08:32:58
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Janelle Meredith :
mine did the same thing to me
2026-10-19 08:35:44
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Dreadwny🫠 :
wtf is happening?
2026-10-19 07:13:41
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stvehn :
he belongs under the jail for this torture
2026-10-17 01:36:34
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Katie Fisher :
Please don’t stop making videos.
2026-10-17 00:38:31
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Mookiepumpkin :
What part of Arkansas? Because I’m from here and live here. You don’t have to stay with him.
2026-10-17 02:37:05
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Iamurmom :
You need someone to step in and take you in. You cannot be around this person. Is there anywhere you can move to? Family friends away from him?! Your health are can move to wherever you need to go!
2026-10-17 01:03:42
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🦋 Tate | Comedian :
Girl, I see red. Please find a women’s shelter. 💕 you’re not crazy
2026-10-17 02:41:21
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mshaleraiser :
Hey girl I’m in Arkansas I have an extra room and can help if you would like to get away from this situation please don’t listen to his lies and threats
2026-10-17 03:28:26
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Ashlee Marie :
Hey girl! I'm in Arkansas. On the Mo/AR/OK border and would be happy to keep you safe.
2026-10-18 02:21:38
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