@josbokhoven: things my nanny family and i do that i didn't realize were controversial until i started posting my nanny content !! 1. my nanny family knows all my family members and allows me to take my nanny toddler to my family events or even just to hang out with them. 2. my husband is often around and will hang out with my nanny parents sometimes as well! 3. if we stay for a week or a weekend, my husband comes along and we play house! 4. my nanny family will cover meals for my husband as well if we go out/ order food in. 5. i brought my sister with me on my nanny family's trip! 6. they let us use their things whenever! 7. we hang out at my house a lot! 8. i treat my nanny toddler as my own. no, he's not mine, but when im in charge, i treat him like he is. i would never do something with him that i wouldn't ever do with my own kids (someday). 9. i give kisses and let my nanny toddler know how much he's loved. this is so important! what are your thoughts? is this normal? #nanny #nannylife #controversial #nannytok #socialmedia
My rules for being a nanny are the same. Soo much that the boys are the ring bearers in My sister's wedding. I couldn't imagine being with kids for months/ years and them not being apart of my family. My nanny kids also call my parents Nana and Pa and my Aunts their Aunts. We wouldn't have it any other Way!
My parents also buy them their own snacks for their house, when we visit.
2026-11-05 23:53:04
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em :
this is definitely not the typical nanny situation but man that sounds great
2026-10-17 02:16:28
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Siddy :
Been a nanny for 10 years and obviously every experience is so different!! I find it so interesting that the kids are allowed to go to your house!!
2026-10-17 01:54:35
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Savannah Pearl :
Mine was the same, and we still talk often and we see them everytime we go back home, I’m married and have my own kiddos now and I think of them everyday… enjoy every minute of it 💖
2026-10-17 02:36:51
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Anna :
I am lucky enough to have this type of family too. They are the best, and it makes the job so much easier! (Doesn’t even feel like a job, really)
2026-10-17 04:40:07
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haydi :
Love this amazing for the kids
2026-10-17 14:03:44
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Seana :
Everything was good for me till the kisses 😬
2026-10-18 01:10:27
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Little of Everything :
I love this so much for you and your nanny family!
2026-10-17 07:54:53
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MissyKayPNW :
This is what I would want if I was a many
2026-10-19 01:44:16
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Ashely Arenas :
I’ve been blessed to have 4 families like this! And that’s the only way I know and will continue to do! My nanny Babies are my babies. Two of them of actually had us (I have 4 kids) in their family photo sessions.
2026-10-17 13:39:19
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Amy 🐾👶🪼🧮 :
If it works for all involved, I don’t see why people have an issue 🤷🏻♀️
2026-10-20 22:18:50
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rose j harper :
I did this as a nanny (I wasn't married then but the rest of it
2026-10-18 16:41:25
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freebird :
Sounds “Normal” to me and while I realize it’s not normal for all situations I normally don’t go for jobs where I don’t expect to be able to have this type of relationship.
2026-10-28 20:00:32
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Madeline Muñoz :
I miss nannying! It was the same way. The best!
2026-10-17 17:35:18
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aniah :
My situation is very similar. My nanny mom literally has told me to send pics of the babies to my grandma bc she knows my grandma loves babies. Its a dream family to work for
2026-10-21 23:25:36
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emilynewland932 :
Honestly, if I were to have a nanny (I cant afford that, and also have no kids) i feel like this is how I would be... like I am inviting the nanny into my home, to watch my baby, imma treat them like family. Because they may not be MY family, but (assuming the nanny and child have a good relationship) I would like to think that the nanny would be like a family member to my child
2026-10-17 04:41:50
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Kenn_nicole1 :
My nanny kids loved dogs so we would go to my house all the time for them to play with the dogs
2026-10-17 02:18:17
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bitnerelle :
Sounds like a good gig!!
2026-10-17 02:48:17
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Brooke Hall :
My favorite thing was having sleep overs with my nanny boys, waking up then going to play at my moms house
2026-10-17 01:55:39
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wyoundergroundprincess2 :
not controversial my sister was a nanny and had a similar situation
2026-10-18 22:23:23
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Lizzie :
[Innocent][Innocent][Innocent]
2026-10-17 03:25:00
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Nanny In Manchester :
Comment on my recent post to help new nanny’s out ❤️any sort of childminding tips are helpful
2026-10-26 15:16:35
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