@cal.calamia: the empath files 🫩

Maria Burnell :

“They’re probably going through something” as I’m going through what they caused me

nishblooms⁷ :

I'm learning to forgive but that doesn't mean they should have access to me

Tiff :

As a Cancer I feel this in my soul, empathy will always be our downfall.

willow :

Nooo bc while I can see that perspective I still struggle with managing my anger. Sometimes it’s really overwhelming

Nicole Alexandra :

This is me all the time but im a cancer, Im just a big empath that doesn’t justify my feelings

Monse 🩷🫧 :

Yeah no I’m not that level of evolved and healed yet. I am anger

Shy :

heavy on, I would never do or say that...but when you don't know better, you can't do better....it hurts to be aware

jerk_magnet :

Letting people in and opening your heart is always going to envoke these emotions. It's a whole process learning how to deal with it, figuring out how people process differently and it's not always wrong but sometimes they are actually wrong. I feel you so much in this.

Mikasa :

honestly, I don't understand. but ur words help me.

AVM :

Yea. big empath here

darkxpressions :

At some point, we are all responsible for our own behaviors and have to become accountable for how our feelings and actions hurt others, regardless of how we were taught or treated growing up 🤷🏻‍♀️Victims can also be abusers

brein :

Anger for how they made me feel -> empathy for why they're in the space they're in -> guilt for being angry at them -> hurt because I still have feelings -> avoidance so it doesn't blow up. Not a fun cycle.

sarahtonin :

The Gemini in me is like F you!! But also something probably happened to them to make them feel that way… but I hate you also.

⭐️HayzeeAF⭐️ :

Yes, I was like this... then perimenopause happened & now I'm ready to remove people who don't respect me enough to have a conversation. No hate, I want them to exist happily, all the way over there & me happily here [Laugh approved]

Hot Mess Sara 🖤 :

so it turns out that as a cis woman, all of that suppressed and unfelt anger is coming out as full blown rage now that im in perimenopause 🥴

Genevieve • Runner ♡ :

I’m working on it 😂

PlayinwithLightning :

I would like to do less of this bc I feel my anger! But also this

Mithsuca berry 🇭🇹 :

Fr

Nina Bell :

Then I’m like nah. They could totally do better. 😅🤭

☀️MSPHOTOSYNTHESIS✨️ :

You ain't doing your best if you hurt a soul like Cal (or me)

Verehly :

Gotta leave space to let the anger have a presence and ventilate before you skip to the acceptance. Gotta let yourself fully grieve that shit

Greeneggsandsam44 :

We are all experiencing life for the first time together after all 😭

stopfemmicide :

sashaflores731 :

45 years old on Sunday and I'm better at expressing my anger but the love is too much at the forefront and I understand and let it go even though they're asses!

CYD :

Nope