@erikagrundon: When the avoidant barely talks during dinner and the secure doesnt personalize it #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantbehavior #anxiousattachment
Honestly I don’t think I could be with someone who isn’t secure or at least trying to be. Both Avoidants and anxious (which I used to be) just do weird shit and sabotage everything
2026-10-17 07:13:39
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cheddargirlish :
I be ladidading so if someone isn’t talking much I don’t automatically assume it’s because of me, I assume it’s because they’re LIKE me and just off in space somewhere. Or content enough that the silence is comfortable enough to not say anything lol
2026-10-17 04:58:59
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hvh78 :
Basically to keep an Avoidant, you must keep your entire relationship surface level. Talk about the weather, traffic and birds outside
2026-10-18 13:25:50
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andrea_vanmatt :
I don’t take it personally. Why should I? But my life is too short to spend it in a way that doesn’t make me happy. This would be one point that would make me think if I want to spend the rest of my life like this. Not a dealbreaker but definitely something I would consider not for me
2026-10-17 07:50:48
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K :
this feels healthy to me, is it not okay to be like this?(this dynamic, not specifically one or the other). I'm struggling with the tone of this video at absolutely no fault to the creator, that is on me but I'm just asking for clarification. thank you!
2026-10-17 18:47:48
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Maya :
I mean… is dinner suppose to be chatty? My whole family is pretty quiet unless there’s work drama that’s usually unpacked beforehand 🥲
2026-10-17 09:26:52
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Dea :
just put on a good show during dinner and problem solved lol
2026-10-20 01:43:50
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ari :
As a Sagittarius this looks like hell
2026-10-23 05:12:20
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b :
after 7 months we’re finally getting better at communicating 🙏
2026-10-17 05:39:54
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🪺 :
this reminds me of my bf and i
2026-10-17 04:54:44
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sliced apart by double edge! :
I’m a yapper leo stellium and a Gemini moon and I love hearing myself talk so unfortunately there won’t be much silence 😭
2026-10-17 06:37:12
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livingcliche :
I can't even tell which one's the avoidant
2026-10-17 12:31:39
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Kat😺 :
my show is on 🙏
2026-10-17 16:57:56
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Pixie🧡 :
Are they even a couple?
2026-10-18 04:50:19
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SeñorWill :
😂 😂 😂
2026-10-18 01:44:16
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Flan :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-18 08:19:06
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lisa :
😅😅😅😅
2026-10-17 11:12:24
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LINOPOPEY 🦍🥷🏾 :
bro with this people better not ask and dont expect nothin from them just let them be them self
the more you choose you the more they get attached to you
always be you do wath makes feel good i swr they just pretending they are fake insecure selfish people cause they see clearly through you
when you sacrifie you self for them
they take advantage from that
thats why they always come back beggin for more of you after break up
they know well not evryone will allow them their bullshit
thats why they always choose specificaly good people only
to playe game because they know that they are to fogiving
juts choose you no matter what
and if they behavin like fools again leave them again and again show them that you love you more than them without any réaction or explanation
they will learn to act right if they want you
thats they key never choose them to stay in you life 😂😂
2026-10-20 01:08:35
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