@erikagrundon: When the avoidant barely talks during dinner and the secure doesnt personalize it #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantbehavior #anxiousattachment

Erika Grundon
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Saturday 17 October 2026 04:52:07 GMT
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37272663 :
Which is which??
2026-10-17 07:00:00
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fairymilk.mp6793
Luna A. :
Honestly I don’t think I could be with someone who isn’t secure or at least trying to be. Both Avoidants and anxious (which I used to be) just do weird shit and sabotage everything
2026-10-17 07:13:39
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cheddargirlish
cheddargirlish :
I be ladidading so if someone isn’t talking much I don’t automatically assume it’s because of me, I assume it’s because they’re LIKE me and just off in space somewhere. Or content enough that the silence is comfortable enough to not say anything lol
2026-10-17 04:58:59
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hopevh78
hvh78 :
Basically to keep an Avoidant, you must keep your entire relationship surface level. Talk about the weather, traffic and birds outside
2026-10-18 13:25:50
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andrea_vanmatt
andrea_vanmatt :
I don’t take it personally. Why should I? But my life is too short to spend it in a way that doesn’t make me happy. This would be one point that would make me think if I want to spend the rest of my life like this. Not a dealbreaker but definitely something I would consider not for me
2026-10-17 07:50:48
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kmsodapop2016
K :
this feels healthy to me, is it not okay to be like this?(this dynamic, not specifically one or the other). I'm struggling with the tone of this video at absolutely no fault to the creator, that is on me but I'm just asking for clarification. thank you!
2026-10-17 18:47:48
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thehottestjambalaya
Maya :
I mean… is dinner suppose to be chatty? My whole family is pretty quiet unless there’s work drama that’s usually unpacked beforehand 🥲
2026-10-17 09:26:52
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oo_dea_oo
Dea :
just put on a good show during dinner and problem solved lol
2026-10-20 01:43:50
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arianabeans
ari :
As a Sagittarius this looks like hell
2026-10-23 05:12:20
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brayd3nhenson
b :
after 7 months we’re finally getting better at communicating 🙏
2026-10-17 05:39:54
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bnfm.13
🪺 :
this reminds me of my bf and i
2026-10-17 04:54:44
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slicedapartby2edge
sliced apart by double edge! :
I’m a yapper leo stellium and a Gemini moon and I love hearing myself talk so unfortunately there won’t be much silence 😭
2026-10-17 06:37:12
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livingcliche0
livingcliche :
I can't even tell which one's the avoidant
2026-10-17 12:31:39
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mlpnosclay
Kat😺 :
my show is on 🙏
2026-10-17 16:57:56
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pixie_pearl17
Pixie🧡 :
Are they even a couple?
2026-10-18 04:50:19
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will_irrelevant
SeñorWill :
😂 😂 😂
2026-10-18 01:44:16
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flan7950
Flan :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-18 08:19:06
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lisa512722
lisa :
😅😅😅😅
2026-10-17 11:12:24
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linopopey45
LINOPOPEY 🦍🥷🏾 :
bro with this people better not ask and dont expect nothin from them just let them be them self the more you choose you the more they get attached to you always be you do wath makes feel good i swr they just pretending they are fake insecure selfish people cause they see clearly through you when you sacrifie you self for them they take advantage from that thats why they always come back beggin for more of you after break up they know well not evryone will allow them their bullshit thats why they always choose specificaly good people only to playe game because they know that they are to fogiving juts choose you no matter what and if they behavin like fools again leave them again and again show them that you love you more than them without any réaction or explanation they will learn to act right if they want you thats they key never choose them to stay in you life 😂😂
2026-10-20 01:08:35
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