@her_mind_speaks: The cruelest part of this wound is that it can attach itself like glue to people who are rejecting, inconsistent and emotionally unavailable. It's not just that you want them to choose you. It's that some part of you is desperate to prove itself to THAT particular person. The very person whose rejection is activating the wound becomes the person you're trying to get relief from it. And that's the loop of pain. #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment