@subliminalsamira: 🌸 1. They Start Wondering Why You’re Not CHASING Anymore. If you were always the one sending the first text, apologizing, or trying to fix things, your silence can feel VERY different. They might start noticing that you’re not reaching out anymore and wondering whether you’ve finally had enough. 🌸 2. The Breakup Doesn’t Feel So EXCITING Anymore. Some avoidant people initially feel relieved when a relationship ends because the emotional pressure is gone. But once that relief fades, they may start remembering the good moments and questioning whether walking away was really what they wanted. 🌸 3. They Realize You’re Not Their BACKUP PLAN. Stop making it so easy for somebody to disappear and reappear whenever they want! If they come back with a random “hey,” you don’t have to drop everything and give them the same access they had before. Let their actions show whether they’re serious. 🌸 4. They Start Comparing Their New Experiences to YOU. Sometimes it’s the smallest things that bring back memories. Your inside jokes, the way you made them laugh, or how comfortable they felt around you. A new connection doesn’t automatically erase everything they experienced with somebody else. 🌸 5. Make Them BREAK NO CONTACT and Come Looking for YOU. Do the Bowcat Method for three nights before bed and FLIP THE SCRIPT! Imagine that avoidant ex who wouldn’t even answer your messages suddenly being the one reaching out, telling you they miss you, regretting the breakup, and wanting another chance. Imagine opening your phone and seeing THEIR name over and over because they’re the ones trying to get YOUR attention now. The experiences people have been sharing after doing this manifestation technique are CRAZY! Three nights before bed, and focus on the reality where THEY’RE chasing YOU. The full Bowcat technique is at the top of my page. 💗 Save this and comment “TEXT ME” if you’re manifesting that message! #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #nocontact #bowcatmethod #exback

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