@shadowandsolace: ⁠Defensive posturing doesn’t make a man strong. When ego inflation replaces inner depth and self knowledge, a man can only show up to a relationship in one of two ways: — Lashing out to protect a fragile persona — Hiding away in passive detachment As psychoanalyst Robert Moore noted, mature masculine power isn't dominant or evasive. It is a solid container. One that takes total responsibility for its internal world. #depthpsychology #carljung #shadowwork #individuation #robertmoore

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brightcreep
brightcreep :
For anyone in the comments that wants to help, you must understand that boys are often emotionally abandoned by almost everyone around the age of 4. Rather than ask “what is hurting”, they’re often met with “you should know better” with no further instruction on how to manage and express deep emotions. Most people don’t understand the male experience, and that’s ok. Start there. Ask questions and try to understand before asking them to be better
2026-10-17 22:22:14
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tsalagi4
tsalagi4 :
All 3 of these are portrayed in East of Eden in the brothers and Lee
2026-10-17 23:46:51
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allthefallenfigs
allthefallenfigs :
Me to men
2026-10-18 01:57:24
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atlas.kaizen
AtlasKaizen :
Hearing jungian awareness’s and or traces the f it… which wasn’t necessarily ‘gender exclusive’… whilst not hearing anything about environmental / societal grooming & conditioning… nor the very often prevalence and presence as at least *(another contextual & contributing factor) of unhealed trauma(s) - actual, psychological, and or emotional🤔. Shadow-work… hero’s journey… dark night of the soul… reparenting… reintegration, etc; all of which… (once again)… not gender specific.
2026-10-18 01:18:05
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katie_psycheandsoul
Katie 🦋 Psyche and Soul :
Perfect timing! My feed is freaky accurate sometimes 😂 my husband and I were JUST having a conversation about this, and this added the perfect context 🙏 there are men out there trying! 🫶
2026-10-17 22:45:52
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heyyollama
yollamamama :
I am blessed with a true King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. They do exist. But are exceedingly rare. And it isn't our job as women partners to create them. Only to reciprocate when we find them.
2026-10-17 18:34:15
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devindrondeau
Devin :
This was the very calm message I was trying to impart on my ex.
2026-10-17 19:14:25
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greatnowimhungry
Greatnowimhungry :
My ex was always trying to be better than everyone while never being around anyone.
2026-10-17 22:07:01
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shelainehamby273
Reverend Shelaine :
Yup! 💯%!
2026-10-17 19:14:29
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anaoverton1
Ana and Ruby :
We talk talk talk about their deplorable condition/position right now but is anyone brave enough to actually tell them?! I believe the break down is there, no evolved men are willing to step up and take up the mantle of showing them the way. And heaven forbid women even try! Therefore we will remain in this god forsaken patriarchy for generations to come, as our population dwindles and the human race ceases to thrive at all.
2026-10-17 19:41:14
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biddybobb
Biddybob :
how can we help our men see this and grow without triggering the threatened boy?
2026-10-17 18:54:17
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k.s.374
k.s.374 :
Right, I think we're living through an era that boys were raised with little emperor syndrome. They're mad because no one gave them the kingdom they thought they were owed.
2026-10-17 20:03:49
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