♡iam_ayomikun_suzanne❥ :
Whenever he offended me, I forgave him quickly and made excuses: "He's just busy, he likes me." One day he posted on his WhatsApp status that he wasn't feeling well. I tried to care and suggested he rub some balm on his body and cover up with a duvet to ease the cold. His reply? That he can do whatever he wants and nobody should dictate to him. We had never even met, and we weren't in the same city. I was only showing concern, and he acted like I was beneath him.
That was the day I set my boundaries and stopped talking to him.
Today I'm with someone who is committed, loyal, responsible, and affectionate. If he doesn't hear from me for an hour, he gets worried. I never thought I'd experience that, and I thank God for him. I don't have to guess whether I'm liked, because I can see it in his actions.
Ladies, please don't put your hope too high because a man is nice. Niceness is not commitment. Don't lower yourself for anyone. Build yourself, set boundaries, and watch actions, not just words. I am the Queen and the one and only queen in my Kingdom ❤️
2026-10-17 18:59:04