I was anxious until I met an avoidant. Now I'm anxious-avoidant.
2026-10-17 19:44:35
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✨✨✨Eva✨✨✨ :
I think a lot of “anxious attachment” is undiagnosed relationship OCD with rumination.
2026-10-18 01:06:00
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myneighborsgayawakening :
At least I know it’s a problem and at least I’m self-aware
2026-10-17 18:59:03
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tilia 🪻🍀🩷 :
actually how the hell can i fix this
2026-10-18 10:55:54
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svxernova :
avoidants instead:
"oh yeah I love you" disappeared for 1 week for no absolute reason
2026-10-18 08:59:02
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pingo₊˚⊹ ᰔ :
Okay but people do be lying too much😭 thats the only thing driving the anxiety
2026-10-17 20:41:41
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🧚🏿♂️ :
u forgot the part where they blame everything on avoidants and take no accountability
2026-10-17 21:32:44
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Jessi_Jo :
Now do avoidant because I’m tired of both of the attachment styles acting like ones better than the other 😭 they’re both equally terrible to experience on both ends personally and from others.
2026-10-17 21:04:50
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Madison Chew :
I feel like a lot of anxiously attached people became that way because of being lied and manipulated to the point where they have trust issues for the future.
2026-10-18 08:40:42
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Cloud____kid 🥺✨ :
Anxious be worse than avoidants lowkey 😭✌🏽
2026-10-18 00:44:26
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a very pretty fish :
every anxiously attached person ive met has said some variation of "i dont care what you need, you have to do what i need or else" and now i hate them
2026-10-18 03:05:22
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݁finnᝰ.ᐟ/|\ ^._.^ /|\ :
"why aren't you opening up to me? i texted you 20 times in 5 minutes"
2026-10-17 19:29:22
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trxllzach :
what’s with this new small trend in avoidants forgetting their “attachment style” is literally textbook narcissistic abuse and acting like anxious are bad
2026-10-17 21:14:43
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ichigo_xdoll :
As someone who's in a stable relationship with another former anxious attachment, you'll both have to work on getting to that secure attachment. Because we both know what we need, we can give that to eachother and therefore we feel more secure and feeling way less anxious. My previous relationship was an avoidance attachment and we didn't meet our needs (+ he was just a horrible guy to begin with) so we broke up after a long time of trying.
2026-10-18 12:01:55
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nikitaivanov1553 :
She got more vids posted somewhere?
2026-10-18 03:41:00
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Circe_Witch_Of_Aiaia :
no cause I’m so tired of everyone acting like avoidants are the devil and anxiously attached people are angels 😭 they’re BOTH toxic.
2026-10-18 09:48:40
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Athoi Roy :
Is this really how I be sounding 🥲😭
2026-10-18 09:58:24
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anna.li4z :
okay so how do i fix this bc i genuinely don't want to be like this i can't help it
2026-10-18 02:42:05
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Meret :
I hope every anxiously attached person doesn't feel attacked by this but takes some distance from their own internal thoughts to see how this behaviour is really just spiralling without brakes 🙏
(I'm saying this as someone who definitely has anxious tendencies and... you really gotta find ways to stop the fucking spiral)
2026-10-18 10:32:03
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thrasherone1 :
How do you fix this?
2026-10-17 19:34:43
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🥿 :
you haven’t known suffering until u date one of these 😭
2026-10-18 10:51:15
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🌜PLAN3T3RIUM🌛 :
I hate anxious attachments sm 😭 my ex was one and being with her was straight torture
2026-10-18 00:22:42
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annie :
I would argue "fixing" your anxious attachment and then going on to repeatedly make negative videos about anxious attachment is, in fact, not fixing your anxious attachment. people with healthy attachment styles don't care this much
2026-10-18 02:32:30
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Blue Rose :
As a fearful avoidant, I need you to do one for us so I lock in
2026-10-17 19:57:51
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