fificherryy🍌
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🤍 :
no cause i’m so fed up of people treating avoidants like they are the devils spawn and then treating anxious people like innocent puppies
2026-10-18 17:27:30
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yolo :
yall acting like anxious and avoidant attachment styles are part of one's personality. ITS LITERALLY TRAUMA RESPONSE. it is NOT supposed to be convenient or attractive in the first place, of course they are going to be insufferable/ hurtful to experience in your partner
2026-10-18 14:51:34
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avoidants are so much worse what? 😭✌️
2026-10-18 20:20:33
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🚬 :
as an anxious attachment person you are extremely right and even i know that
2026-10-18 12:00:35
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Acko 🩸 :
All insecure attachments are as harmful as each-other 😭 you can either argue about which one is worse or work on yourself loll
2026-10-18 18:15:52
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༞♡𝒶𝓃ℯ𝒾𝓇𝒶 𝓇ℴ𝓈ℯ♡༞ :
dont think anyone’s like this on purpose
2026-10-18 16:46:28
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nikie :
people when avoidants get demonized and painted as the reincarnation of hitler: ✌🏻🤩💫🎊🎉💯 people when anxiously attached people get criticized: noooo my little angels 🥺🥹💔 why are we turning this into a competition 😭😭
2026-10-18 21:15:56
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evie 🪽 :
avoidants are arguably so much worse
2026-10-18 11:03:53
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𝒫𝒶𝓈𝓈𝒾ℴ𝓃ꨄ :
then they write up a whole paragraph of why they’re valid😭😭
2026-10-19 04:45:26
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𑣲૨เѵaille | #¹ ᶜˡᵒⁿᵉᶠⁱᵉˢ ᶠᵃⁿ :
omfg I hate the "avoidants hurt others, anxious people hurt themselves" misconception. like no??? from my experience both of them make their internal problems everyone elses
2026-10-18 20:32:39
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Charlie✨🪐 :
Both attachments suck ass. But both of them are trauma responses. If you don't want to deal with it, don't date someone with trauma. Done
2026-10-18 19:05:51
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LexieLoaf • Foe :
I think my ex developed an anxious attachment style somewhere during the relationship and it genuinely pushed me towards avoidant tendencies
2026-10-18 16:56:54
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Don’t_test me 😞🤚 :
The worst thing an avoidant will do is leave you
2026-10-19 04:28:58
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𝘫𝘰 ⌁ ۫ ִ 🏛️﹗ :
idk why we think we’re so much better than individuals that have been traumatised to the point, where their system had to rewire for survival lol
2026-10-18 15:13:03
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.katistar :
Both are bad, and we should all strive not to be either.
2026-10-19 03:46:33
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ᯠ˶ ᯄ :
also when they say that avoidants are narcissistic but anxious attachments are more likely to be narcissistic
2026-10-18 20:45:08
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Mire | SCP-914 fan :
I don’t date but anxious attached FRIENDS?? they’re pure hell, esp when they’re not even a close/best friend
2026-10-18 13:40:21
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Maria 💓 :
Avoidants and anxious are both insufferable ✌🏻
2026-10-18 23:38:42
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️mika :
“avoidants don’t make it everyone else’s problem” but they quite literally do. both are as bad and harmful as each other so this post kinda makes no sense in the slightest?
2026-10-18 19:10:29
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chonk :
avoidant actually take accountability for being avoidant, bc there’s so much anxiously attached ppl in the world they all just coddle eachother into ignorance thinking they don’t need to heal, 9/10 they actually push their partner into avoidance by dismissing there love for them but they’re not ready for that conversation
2026-10-18 23:16:33
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Tokogou :
you act like we can control it bruh
2026-10-19 04:16:57
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Hannah :
y'all act like anxious attachment is the literal devil, get a grip oml
2026-10-18 15:34:50
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At Adgax's :
Avoidant and anxious are both equally bad depending on the side you stand on.
2026-10-18 18:43:27
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₮ØⱤł :
Maturing is realizing everyone could be either anxious or avoidant or disorganized but would be willing to not be like that for the person they love most but no one wants to hear that yet
2026-10-19 04:28:26
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fificherryy🍌 :
GUYS!!! I know why people are anxiously attached and I know attachment issues aren’t chosen but it is a choice on how you act on it. I’ve seen anxious attachment videos demonising anyone who doesn’t cater to their need, I have witnessed it first hand too and I’m expressing an annoyance at that cos their attachment is also a big issue and forceful asf. And I feel like it’s not talked about enough in media
2026-10-19 01:50:06
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