why does it have to get to this point before they realise?
2026-10-18 03:11:00
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🧡🤍🩷 Tessa Valentine 🆘🇺🇲 :
I maintain that most men want a wife and kids but don't want to be a father and a husband
2026-10-18 14:52:57
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Miss Sissy :
years ago.. I got tired of being everything. I went on strike. Stopped cooking. stopped cleaning. stopped caring. Til the night my husband's coworker stopped by unannounced. You could see his concern. You could feel my husband's embarrassment. I explained it. I work 50+ hours. Got tired of being the cook, maid, laundry, cheffeur... so I stopped. the friend sent me out for a while. . i came home to a clean house and a husband with an adjusted attitude.
2026-10-18 04:09:45
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dannii89 :
if ya both work full time , have kids , don’t have kids , there’s no excuse for one person to pick the mentle load of home whilst the other don’t ….
2026-10-18 08:20:14
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SOTS247 :
I genuinely think this will resonate with far, far too many women 🥹😔
2026-10-19 10:33:59
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Chelseaintheskyy :
This literally made me cry 😢 😭
2026-10-19 12:55:26
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Cat :
this just makes me mad… husband and kids have no freaking clue!!
2026-10-18 01:24:24
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hales_064 :
This is me, but I’m the eldest daughter and take care of the entire household
2026-10-18 02:23:58
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AMANDA MORALES :
sometimes the exhaustion doesn't come from being physically tired its always making sure everyone has what they need and being both caregiver for the house and full-time job.... my mom brain for an appointment is ok 21st is my appointment so i need to be prepared have my paperwork ready o I need to wash clothes so i have someone to wear that reminds me i need to call about that referral for child 1 and i need $100 for child 2 eyeglasses by next week did i pay my car insurance o shoot i forgot to call so and so yesterday for school wait am i scheduled for tomorrow to work.
2026-10-18 03:31:02
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chookland_404 :
This is why a lot of women are opting out of having kids and getting married in a society that expects them to sacrifice their whole entire lives for people who don’t care about them
2026-10-19 13:10:30
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BaldNsexy :
I need to start asking my mates what they do for their wives. Are other men really so blind to their partner's struggles. we have a 4 month old and I've literally booked time off of work so my missus can take herself away and pamper herself for 4 days. As soon as I get home I cook dinner for us. I do bath time, I stay up and do all the night feeds so that she can sleep. Just because ive been at work and shes at home with the baby doesn't mean shes just been chilling out all day. Being with a baby 24/7 is fucking hard. I at least get a break from it while I'm at work. Yes my job is hard and physically tiring, but so is being a mother. So when I get home my second job is to make sure that the mother of my child is able to look after herself. Do I sometimes fall asleep between night feeds and sleep through my alarm yes, does my wife get angry at me, no, because she knows it only happens when I've got 0 left in the tank. As a man your job is to show up every day and try and make your family's life better. If you'd rather sit on the couch and play video games then I have to tell you, you're still a little boy, not a man. Your wife gave her body for your child, she spent 9 months creating the miracle of life, the very least you can do is show her some respect by properly supporting her.
2026-10-19 13:23:50
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haylee♥️ :
8 months and you never stepped up as a man? please lord never let this find me
2026-10-18 14:37:19
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Jocc :
Many women do this as they are not selfish
2026-10-19 09:34:00
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Random Stuff :
when people say "she never said anything she just left me/him" - yes she did. probably for YEARS. but nobody cared enough to listen.
2026-10-18 16:39:55
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Marissa :
This was me for years and that's why I divorced him. I realized if I was already doing everything for everyone including him, I would rather do it alone because it meant one less person. I'm still exhausted, but I've never felt more peaceful.
2026-10-18 11:06:29
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BB 🇦🇺 :
this is becoming me...
2026-10-19 03:18:24
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Raisingboys4 :
His tired and her tired would be two different things
2026-10-18 11:32:00
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TortinaChip :
You wanted a Wife....but you never wanted to be a husband.
2026-10-18 13:45:05
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IREENIQA :
Nah, stop the cap. A man isn't this thoughtful
2026-10-18 12:42:45
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Adry :
A wife, a mother, a provider.. we do it all
2026-10-18 04:11:00
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Nosy ❤️ Voyeur :
I'm just wondering why you didn't hire a house manager since you are both working to help with the house chores
2026-10-18 04:37:15
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Gabby :
sitting here on the couch after i fed bathed and put the boys down to sleep then made a separate dinner for my partner cleaned up took a shower reading this slowed me down to think we have to do so much and it's not always seen at all i'm crying now 😭😭
2026-10-18 05:01:22
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IceQueen :
efficiency that never stops until it runs out of fuel, but no one is quick enough to help refuel the very person that got taken for granted
2026-10-18 01:09:54
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SassyGABug :
Im a widow, my husband hid that he was sick from me until, his body literally couldn't go on. Don't turn away, when she tries to tell you something. It could the last words you hear.
2026-10-18 02:40:38
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