@j.gatsb: im a little overwhelmed right now but i promise i will get back to all the messages. i feel like i just needed to get this off my chest. #spinabifida #disability #hospital #chronicillness #family

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chronically.kelly1
Chronically Kelly :
Humans aren’t really meant to be completely independent though. We are really meant to be interdependent.
2026-10-18 03:46:16
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genxpatriot78
genxpatriot78 :
Believe it or not, you are actually helping others having their own struggles by being transparent about your journey. Don’t be embarrassed please. You are so strong, and that strength is such a virtue.
2026-10-18 03:08:08
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candycanemomma16
CanycaneMomma16 :
we all need support hun. you are no less of a man, person or indivual. I dont look at you any different. you are a human being who deserves love, care, and support. You deserve the world. And for being sober.....my friend..IM SO DAMN PROUD OF YOU! you are amazing!! Im 11 years sober. *hugs hugs*
2026-10-18 03:42:58
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brandygreen416
brandygreen416 :
Never give up u got this
2026-10-18 04:41:11
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user024user
user :
you deserve so much better and it does get better i promise
2026-10-18 03:13:12
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marzvelez13
Brittany Velez :
big sis over here. it takes a village and we are here for you.
2026-10-18 04:24:15
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sheilanorman42
Sheila Faye :
Don't feel bad because you need help, we all do sometimes 🙏❤️I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
2026-10-18 03:36:16
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wendyhonda24
Wendy24 :
Hello Jasper, Thank you for being genuine wish there was more people like you💜. Much love 💜
2026-10-18 07:04:26
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merph610
YourLocalPsycho🙃🚩 :
Not a single souls grief is worse or lighter than yours. Different absolutely, still painful, still hard as fuck…yeah absolutely. You are loved and you freaking matter! Love you bub! 🖤🫂
2026-10-18 04:53:52
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tonia.caprice
Tonia✨️ :
Im so sorry you are dealing with all of this. Im old enough to be your momma. Please reach out to me when you would like some friendly support. Stay strong!
2026-10-18 03:05:33
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charlottesneddon1225
Charlotte Sneddon :
Don’t feel bad. I definitely am not in the position you are, but I have a neurological condition called Charcot Marie Tooth. It’s wrecked my body. I’ve underwent several surgeries for it too. Right now I have stage 4 endometroid cancer and chemo is kicking my butt. There’s an entire community on social media here for you. You’ll definitely find a light in such a dark spot with feeling like going into a nursing home is such a negative spot. If it’s one thing I’ve learned this year alone you’ve got to find the small wins. Pain sucks so very much and dictates your life. I’m also no contact with my parents and it’s truly not an easy thing. You’ve got this friend. Stay strong.
2026-10-18 05:00:02
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mistyhall941
Miss T :
I would love to see you make it huge on here so you could pay for personal care. Let’s help push this guy out and make it happen!
2026-10-18 05:19:24
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auntbeth1957
Aunt Beth :
You have our support and we definitely care for you!
2026-10-18 04:57:28
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twizzasaurus1
twizzasaurus🖤🧌🌻 :
I have spina bifida and have 2 vp shunt due to hydrosyphilis and am now a full time wheelchair user I know how you feel
2026-10-18 03:50:37
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kristicassada
kristicassada :
We do care!! Don’t be embarrassed or blame yourself, you can’t do anything about heath issues!! Just know we are here to listen and we’re all wishing the best for you!! 🫶🏼
2026-10-18 03:03:26
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beachmama918
Jessica :
I got sick when I was 30. Woke up in the ICU one day with 40 staples down my stomach and missing organs. I don’t even remember going to the hospital or my stomach hurting at home. I was just waiting for my son to get out of school then woke up there a week later and didn’t go home for 2 months. Now I’ve had over 20 surgeries so far. Yesterday was actually the day I got sick. I had nothing wrong before
2026-10-18 04:45:39
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indian.princess932
Indian Princess :
So sorry you're dealing with so much. I am also old enough to be your mother..I am here to support you. You don't have to do this alone.
2026-10-18 04:04:01
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alex.9030
alex.9030 :
You’ve got a brother in me for life I’m here for you in any way possible
2026-10-18 04:55:07
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tmehling9
Tori Mehling :
Take it one day at a time. I get it, I hear yea, I have scholisis. I’ve been through a lot.
2026-10-18 04:51:45
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suelee2020
alana :
There is nothing wrong with sharing your story. You are an inspiration because I promise you, someone is going to hear your story, and know they are not alone. You are making a difference. I work at an assisted living facility in Georgia with young and older residents. Try to find a community that is active with in house activities. You can still thrive. You are worth it, and seen. Keep fighting!
2026-10-18 03:45:42
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mitziwilliamsamato
mitziwilliamsamato :
Yes…everyone has stuff…that doesn’t diminish your stuff! Your stuff is a LOT!
2026-10-18 03:29:02
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stephaniekollar1
Stephanie Kollar Gen ❌ :
im so sorry your dealing with this your not alone
2026-10-18 05:04:40
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queenhadassah_22
Wakandalicious :
Young man, you got a big family here and you articulate yourself very well. I think you have a bigger calling to speak to others , I think you can also right a book and in the future help change some laws based on your experiences.
2026-10-18 05:36:28
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nancie0303
Nancie0303 :
❤️You have US!
2026-10-18 03:04:25
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blackseahorse100
Nonya :
homie, that’s a trauma response- i do this too!
2026-10-18 03:08:19
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