DeeDeeV2 :
I’ve witnessed this four times, First, my boyfriend of many years who died in 1990, then my father who died in 1993, then my mother who died in 2000, and last my other half of many many years in 2024. It doesn’t get easier, but because I knew what to expect I had the anticipatory grief, I knew that they were going to die on the day they did and I was there for them. It’s a site and an experience. You’ll never forget. I just hope when it’s my turn, I go quick, I don’t wanna lay there and suffer for months like they did, all of them did. I missed all of them and I still grieve, even after all these years, but I have to remind myself they are no longer suffering, they are free from their disease ridden bodies now. I am not in the best of health myself right now and I feel it coming, they say you can tell in advance when your time here on earth is running out, with the exception of accidental death, of course. Thank you for educating people, we should not fear death, for many it’s a blessing like it was for the four people I just wrote about.
2026-10-18 14:14:10