@_kayradebe: Recovering people pleaser diaries

mthokozisi P magic :

true facts cooking

Premium Apparel :

Too much kindness attracts disrespect.

j_st J 🥷🏽 :

Normalise being the villain

MaMdluli :

You are speaking to me, and even though I am still a work in progress, I have started becoming a more selfish person. I am so proud of me 🙂

LANGALIBALELE DLADLA :

go for you

Archetype Mirror :

Letting go of being seen as good doesn't mean becoming the villain. It means your kindness stops needing an audience, so your yes and your no can both be honest.

Zam_ Fortune :

YEAH ABSOLUTELY TRUE.AS LONG AS YOURE GOOD TO THE PEOPLE THAT DESERVE IT.

LEBU_NQOLOBE :

im good person by nature, but one i do is when i get disrespected i cut those people off completely some of my family members know that properly so

Ballasta(Billy) :

Dankow my sister that's what I keep on asking God to instill inside me

Tyreese 🇿🇦👿 :

ATP not even becoming a villain. Just straight up evil 🙂

@Tshepang. :

you saying people have to be bad?. thats toxic

Bokang :

to be honest I like putting myself first because ain't nobody coming to my rescue and I don't expect anything from anyone,and I don't like sharing unless I feel like it,in my world its me against the world

jamgkmxszv5f :

For ultimate victory you must be ruthless... Must have the capacity to put yourself first, disappoint people and have vitamin N-No the ability to say NO ..

Thembelani Pride Mahlangeni :

I use to fall for that trick I won’t anymore

Dr_Nthabiseng_Author :

This is true hey…. It brings so much peace ❤️

Romeo_ :

Yes

LadyFranny :

Learned this late

Nands :

Exactly

💕Nonkosi🌸💞 :

Heard you loud and clear 😎

star :

Okay Kay 🥺

Neilwe :

Yebo and its ohk bethuna singaphela

shesbecomingunbothered :

Learning to choose myself and know that I don’t need validation 👏

MaryB :

So true, Thanks for the reminder

Leboo Tsotetsi🤍 :

Yessss

Sir Rang :