@jgkanyoni: Are you married but feeling emotionally disconnected from your spouse? Has sex become infrequent, mechanical, or completely absent? Do you share a house, children, and responsibilities but no longer feel like lovers? A marriage can survive disagreements, but unresolved emotional disconnection can slowly destroy affection, sexual desire, and companionship. In Part 3 of our Marriage Pressure Cooker series, John Kanyoni of Safe Haven Nurtures explains the important difference between emotional intimacy and sex in marriage, why both matter, and how couples can rebuild the connection they have lost. In this video, discover: ✅ The difference between intimacy and sex in marriage. ✅ Why emotional safety, affection, and trust influence sexual desire. ✅ How unresolved conflict and resentment affect physical intimacy. ✅ Why some married couples gradually become emotionally distant roommates. ✅ Simple daily habits that rebuild emotional and physical connection. ✅ Why sex should never be used to punish, manipulate, or control your spouse. Remember: Intimacy is not just what happens in the bedroom. It is how you treat your spouse outside the bedroom. Holding hands, listening without judgment, expressing appreciation, spending time together, and repairing emotional wounds all contribute to a healthier marriage. And when sex becomes a source of conflict, couples need understanding, honest communication, mutual consent, and sometimes professional support. LET ME ASK YOU: Are you still emotionally connected to your spouse, or are you simply sharing a house and responsibilities? 💬 Share your thoughts respectfully in the comments. 👍 LIKE this video if you believe emotional intimacy matters. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for practical marriage counselling and relationship advice. ❤️ SHARE with someone who needs to understand the difference between sex and intimacy. COMING NEXT: Why Sex Should Never Be Withheld to Punish, Control, or Manipulate Your Spouse. MARRIAGE COUNSELLING AND SUPPORT For professional marriage counselling, relationship mentorship, and Marriage Shield programmes: 🌐 https://www.safehavennurtures.com Safe Haven Nurtures — Safe Spaces. Real Talk. Restoring Families. #SexAndIntimacy #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCounselling #EmotionalIntimacy #HealthyMarriage

Mosoba Sam :

Wisdom will kill

AMATE GABACHWEZI :

Very true

@tynah :

phones have replaced wives and husbands in our families 😳

KINGSVIEW AGENCIES LIMITED :

wooow this is true

Max Ogal :

Thanks

Kakuru Benon :

Hloooo life is getting hard every day

Juliet :

Discuss the roles and duties in involved causing what you described is not the root cause, like aan who can't feed his family, pay bills, can't sheller his family, we have promoted struggling love and not going for root causes. Are we helping the man to build capacity, structures and frameworks to keep family before engagement with a woman because the woman comes to expose the weakness he covered at the point of start line

user8196860995309 :

pure wisdom.

nicey :

me what I will do again nikupenda MTU.hio ni kwa watoto wangu . marriage is not my cup of tea

sun shine🌝 :

as long as it will eventually end..I don't care

edd :

wow nice and powerful words

Lord forgive them, :

very true

WAHU Daughter Of Faith :

Am used to this now.....

robinah :

well said sir

Carol :

only God can save it

phylis kageha mdanya :

Thus very true sir

Director G :

If we knew this why did we voted kasongo🤣

Ssalongo Chris black Waltz :

Geoffrey Were :

well elaborated

Lee w m :

only God

𝓑𝓸𝓼𝓼𝓵𝓪𝓭𝔂 😍 :

I think it is too late, 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

nature :

Powerful message. God bless you for endeavoring to make marriages stand

NASHON LUKEE 🇰🇪 :

this Generation can't understand that

onewish :

this message goes more to women....