@therealniccoy: Not every opinion deserves a seat at your table. Criticism is a tool for growth, not a free-for-all. Save the hard conversations for people who actually have a relationship with you. The internet doesn’t get unlimited access to your nervous system. #internetculture #criticism #HealingJourney #criticismfatigue #Relationship
sometimes, even harsh and rude words can do nothing !!!
2026-10-19 14:32:13
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Olwethu :
Feedback culture! the unfortunate part is there is no growth without it. same as school, work etc...i also know the reason why. See human beings have a love and hate relationship with 'SHAME', we make our decision based on it which puts us in a stagnation position most times.
2026-10-19 18:34:12
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cory random thoughts :
I haven't had my 15 coffees yet. i have
2026-10-20 00:49:30
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Awakened2025 :
Love this!!!
2026-10-20 01:59:47
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Jazifit | Toronto 🇨🇦 :
Tell this to my adult kids
2026-10-20 00:32:16
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Bunkeyworld :
Isn’t that therapist?
2026-10-19 21:30:07
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jen_early_mcgonigle :
I tell people that if I didn't care about them I would walk away and say nothing. I always reassure them that I am never judging them, I just want them to notice that their behaviors are harming them or others.
2026-10-19 14:59:26
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Sam 🪩✨🌈 :
I have started telling people recently “the people in your life deserve to know what they are doing that you are upset by so they have the opportunity to change”. I am an extremely direct but kind communicator. I will call out behavior I don’t like the second it happens if I can with all the kindness and love I can muster. If it’s going to be a big convo I do it later but as soon as I can. I also have started telling my loved ones that I welcome constructive criticism and they are safe to bring things up to me without fear. Even if I cry at first lol. Which is my reaction sometimes.
2026-10-19 22:28:24
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Ravit Hen :
That’s when criticism becomes a judgement. It’s when the friendship ends.
2026-10-19 21:01:15
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Emillia Isabelle Sum :
A therapist once told me, not all criticism is constructive.
I replied, it is if your on the spectrum. Teachable moments etched into my mind. I am always gentle with others becuase of this💚
2026-10-19 21:51:06
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Face Flop :
Ambiguity is lying.
2026-10-19 17:34:54
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Stacey Sk8 :
Thank you , I needed to hear this.
2026-10-19 15:02:05
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RedheadExotics :
Me. My voice gets real shaky when giving some one honest vulnerable feedback
2026-10-19 18:02:05
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KodieRae :
YES!!!
2026-10-20 01:24:38
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Ana :
yes !!! but not as a weapon.. ! true🥰
2026-10-19 18:25:57
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T :
Might ✨
2026-10-19 15:29:24
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Messylife🌿🧿🎨 :
Girl your wisdom 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Love the way you learnt from experience and still face the world with truth and love.
2026-10-19 16:07:44
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Dr Kathy Nickerson :
Actually, criticism is not ideal, much better to be honest and kind.
2026-10-19 17:32:54
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C 4 Serious he/him/ours :
Those are standards I stand by.
2026-10-19 15:57:17
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wqcyuo0 :
😁😁😁
2026-10-19 19:24:54
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Jessica :
👍
2026-10-19 18:22:04
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rugs :
🤔🤔🤔
2026-10-19 18:02:30
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Odyssey of Enlightenment :
⚖️🖤💙💚💜❤️🧡💛🤍🪶
2026-10-19 17:59:11
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Jo Jo M :
💯💯💯💯
2026-10-19 17:17:15
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The Captain :
❣️
2026-10-19 21:03:18
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