@avafindscalm: Were you ever loved just for existing, or only for what you did? #innerchildhealing #childhoodtrauma #emotionalneglect #HealingJourney #cyclebreaker

LadyButterflycrawford468Terri :

This is so me...if anyone cares my therapy starts tomorrow...wish me luck.

Excelsior Warpcore :

Avoidants? But I can’t fix it . Good luck to all

Lahnnaaaa :

Why is death clocking me?

indigogogogo :

I was like this, until my best friend pointed out that I would never expect someone i love to live like that. that i was teaching my daughter to do the same. that was it, that was the turning point for me. Now I live like I would want her to. I have boundaries, ask for what I want, take up space, and trust my voice. Even if you're not a mother there's a child inside all of us that can relate, that could use an adult who sticks up for us.

Maddy :

right at me, huh?

The Philips :

I really want therapy, but my dad is against it and him and my mom aren’t the easiest people to talk to…

Carrie Gelwicks :

“You’re too much and not enough.”

ℭ𝔦𝔞𝔯𝔞🔪 :

Me, the youngest having to shape my personality to my whole family.

_Nishaa :

Oh I feel like this book would make me cry idk idkkkkk!

Kc :

Guys….uh wanting to be useful isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Showing appreciation for kind word and gestures does not make you starved. Seeing a need and filling the need feels good to woman because we learned to decentralize ourselves young. Men unfortunately take longer. What ya need to work on is 1. Finding a man who has learned to decentralize himself and walking away from those who haven’t. 2. Receive the help. If a man says what can I do for you. Don’t ever say nothing. Find him something. He is centering you! When u say nothing he centers himself Think about it….when u have nothing to do…..you center yourself to.

Felisha :

This felt personal

Lou :

I hate that I’m this way

🫧Esthella Cardenas 🫧 :

I wanted to cry either way

ediblecrayons🏳️‍🌈💙🇨🇱❌️ :

I feel like this is heavily directed at oldest daughters.

HonestlyEm :

Hey so ouch?

Stacey Elizabeth :

Tanya :

Dear Old Me, We changed and it's ok. We speak our mind with just enough respect for others to not be mean (unless they earned it). We don't have tons of friends, but it's even better because our friends are real.

Shay :

Dave Murphy240 :

accurate...

awakenwithnicole28 :

Felt this thank you for sharing

Bella Luna :

I bought the book. I can’t wait to jump into this. 🥹❤️

Katie :

ouch that was not necessary

Mandy Smith-Maze :

Perimenopause

kittyrostova420OwO :

is there an audio book version?

user2256594801234 :

All true.