an avoidant was once a yearner who just wanted to be loved, until being vulnerable taught them that opening up meant getting hurt
2026-10-19 01:52:02
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yeen :
dia taktau ke rasa berdebar nak reply tu macam mana.. takut terlepas cakap je
2026-10-18 16:59:49
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Doughnut :
We avoid because there is no solution to out problem , and the same shit kept happening
2026-10-18 20:10:49
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nikko :
love to overshare but i hate to explain
2026-10-18 20:36:46
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fryshabmz :
sorry do
2026-10-29 11:50:44
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𝒹 :
real, sometimes penat asf nak kena layan orang yg ad avoid ni. suck gila
2026-10-18 17:42:01
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𝙎𝙮𝙯𝙖.🦋 :
Aku taksuka chat. Jumpa la aku, call aku.
2026-10-18 19:44:26
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Brother.Hood Core :
Sometime avoiding people is good thing bruh, so u dont waste ur energy to wrong people. If u keep ur pleaser to wrong people. They will keep depent on you and keep using u.
2026-10-19 08:44:24
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ℰ :
bila dah banyak kali speak up tapi tak ada perubahan macam mana ?
2026-10-19 03:07:15
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wlee >_< :
aku pun mcm ni jenis hilang then i realized communication is important and yea u should talk about it
2026-10-19 00:06:08
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minaaaaa :
I am an avoidant too back then, dulu mcmnila, slalu hilang, but i tried to not be one bila start belajar kt uni by talking out about the problems between people but guess what they never understand me and left me hanging. Lpstu burukkan saya dkt smua org ckp saya batu api, twist everything. Mind you in the conversation, i never lie, use curses words, or shouting or any kind of violance during confrotation. But that never discouraged me to actually give up on people but i can’t denied byk jugk yg failed bcause prnh dgr tak quote goes like “communication is the key, but it won’t work if another side lacks comprehension.” So yea, being avoidant is good but you yourself know how to step out if you sense danger. Hope you find your way one dayy soon okie!
2026-10-19 04:00:14
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🎖🍪 Queen Biskut 🍪🎖 :
Dear avoidant, never push away the people who sabar dengan u. Org yg sbr dgn u was the people u cn feel safe around. Cuma jgn bergantung hrp lebih kpd manusia, anggap manusia ni pnjmn Allah, mse dia ade hrgai, if dia dh prgi ikhlaskan. Avoidant ni dia pnh terluka dan dia tkut terluka lg sbb cara pengharapan tu salah. Like, syg berpada2, open up berpada2.. tp jgn push people away and expect people to be there always, people has limits, so was YOU!
2026-10-19 02:49:49
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sab :
bukn ap lh tkut trlps ckp kta" yg mnykitkn hti , mmg dh x pikir perasaan org
2026-10-18 19:18:44
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🐈⬛ :
weh menusuknya
2026-10-18 16:58:37
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847 :
sedihnya…
2026-10-18 16:10:25
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ً :
dia taktau ke avoid dari becerita ni a peak of peace yang kita dah capai dalam hidup ✌️
2026-10-18 19:46:17
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cacille_a_flower :
as an avoidant, kta kna brubah jugak. akuni dah 5 org tinggalkan aku, relay pulak smua sethun keatas. igtkan diorg yg kurg, rupanya bila aku g jumpa therapist mmg aku yg problem
2026-10-18 21:16:33
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💭 :
tak leh do ,aku sad sikit je menghilang dari radar
2026-10-19 11:39:36
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𒉭 :
Aku luah ke tak luah ke sama je. So better diam
2026-10-18 23:01:06
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:
im sorry
2026-10-18 20:32:45
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妈妈 :
jangan buat macam ni tau korang, kalau betul sayang partner. sama sama kena transparent dengan feelings each other.