i genuinely wish i read The Abandoned Laws of Life by Owen Carter earlier
2026-10-19 10:39:58
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Letmeluv :
its actually so hard rn because my boyfriend just doesn't understand emotional talks. i ask him how hes feeling and he cant give me an answer so naturally he doesn't ask aswell. we only talk about emotions when we fight. only then he can somehow communicate with me about feelings...
2026-10-18 19:31:58
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Shirley :
The cost$ always more than we're willing to pay
2026-11-13 15:26:22
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Nagi :
Is this something that can be taught?
2026-11-10 21:52:04
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DocRen :
My whole marriage
2026-10-19 18:51:54
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Giulia | The Aftermath :
Not being met with curiosity sounds small. Then you notice you've started editing what you feel before you say it.
2026-10-19 14:36:08
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Anna • 🇵🇱 / 🇺🇸 :
And if they haven’t been curious for so long, one day you find out you’re not curious either, not anymore. It’s not a great realization yall
2026-10-18 19:34:11
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jessicarockliff63 :
but asking for clarity and understanding is me attacking him because I'm questioning him.......😳
2026-10-23 21:56:51
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🌺🇵🇷La Única🇵🇷🌺 :
Tried but only had two to three word responses or dismissed
2026-11-04 00:11:18
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MissCupcake.exe :
Reading your partner should be a mutual thing. Being seen and heard feels like love. Being predictable means you’re consistent. We are all people with skills and flaws. Learn theirs and be willing to be learned. That is what makes partnership.
2026-10-18 19:30:12
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CasaLorena :
He doesnt understand me at all. He never asks questions, and he never tells me anything. Ive learnt to be super quiet, and act like i dont care. Deep down its actually killing me
2026-10-18 21:51:15
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thereelcdavid :
As I’ve told my wife, you should be trying to get a PHD in your spouse.
2026-10-18 21:59:50
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RaesofGould :
So if your spouse doesn’t care about genuinely connecting with you.. do you try something? Anything? Because I’m pretty comfy just ignoring that they live here.
2026-10-21 00:26:58
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still__Deb 🇨🇦 :
I've learned (the hard way), that there are genuinely people who do not have any interest or curiosity about their partner's feelings.
2026-10-19 00:06:07
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azcoze7 :
Jimmy, you’re the best!!!!🥰
2026-10-21 00:53:25
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Karen :
how do you get a man to ask a question?
its like they dont know how. how do you get someone to not make it about them when your sharing how you feel about something and how your handling it????
2026-10-19 02:18:00
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newnarratives4 :
This is a prime example of an over-therapised experience
2026-10-18 21:22:00
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will.i.am :
🩷
2026-10-18 22:15:52
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🙈Brooke.Dianne.Howard🌸 :
I love your content!
2026-10-19 13:31:14
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all.manner.of.magic :
being curious is a good goal in general. the brain can't really be scared (/defensive) and curious at the same time. stay out of your amygdala with curiosity.
2026-10-18 21:03:56
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the morrigan :
It’s the reason we check out
2026-10-26 12:42:00
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Frank Coyle :
Yes... one opens up and is vulnerable... and the other one isn't. You've both got to be open and vulnerable and communicative.
2026-10-19 15:58:02
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JennieOfAllTrades :
..... every avoidant in the world needs to understand they are CREATING an unsustainable relationship and bringing their own self fulfilled prophecy to fruition.
2026-10-19 05:01:56
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Linda :
Yup. So I don’t bother anymore
2026-10-18 21:03:41
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Debbi | 3x Olympian :
Thank you for your excellent knowledge
2026-10-19 23:57:07
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