@seanlans: It’s not necessarily a bad thing to put in more effort than the other person in the beginning stages of a friendship #friends #makingfriends @Conair @CeraVe @Marc Anthony Hair @Bath & Body Works @Maison Louis Marie
This is a very mature take, it’s all about putting yourself out there!!!
2026-10-18 20:27:06
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ariost :
needed to hear this atp in my life
2026-10-18 21:13:29
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🩵🤍 :
It feels like begging
2026-10-19 02:07:06
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Elle :
Sorry I know not the point of your video, but my son really wants his hair to be curly like yours…what products are you using?
2026-10-18 21:59:09
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… :
Nedded to hear this. Feel like a begger lol or like they don’t like me💀
2026-10-20 18:57:50
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kalyserawlings :
Deadass so true I litterally put down my ego and pride
2026-10-19 03:22:33
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Bogdi :
Yeah but at what point does it become 50/50 though
2026-11-01 23:21:42
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creditinthestraightwrld :
Ahh this is depressing as someone who has like no friends😭
2026-10-19 18:35:22
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Kramoh :
Did not need this reaffirmation tonight but thank you anyway
2026-10-19 01:02:33
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sof._.816 :
see that’s the thing 😭 like it’s not hard to just ask to invite someone else like whenever that happens me and my friends are always like YES it’s just giving stingy and highschool
2026-10-18 23:51:31
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🪐 :
unless someone is willing to also swallow their pride i’m not doing that no one is ever that important for me to be chasing them around
2026-10-19 05:45:01
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SmirkyMicrobe :
There will be people you really really like, but their lives may already be too full for you. I would love to make new friends, but my life is very full, and I actually want more time for myself. There's a woman I really came to love and I wanted to be friends with, but her life was very full and she lived in a completely different state. Personally, I was willing to shift things around in my schedule to make time for her here and there, and she wasn't willing to do the same thing. Which is sad, but okay. Because there are plenty of people who want to be friends with me and I can't find time for them either.
2026-10-19 12:09:59
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Dutch Dutch Teacher :
Also most people are friends with people that have more friends with them because people with more friends are friends with a lot of people
2026-10-26 15:42:55
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Cole W. :
This is so true I’ve never thought about this, I’ve been on both sides of this in the last year and it’s been so strange 😭
2026-10-18 23:14:33
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Chad :
I even saw that there was a study proving the the average ‘friend’ has more friends on average than the person they are friends with
2026-10-26 15:57:03
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springclouds :
As a big extrovert with lot of friends. I have no issues being the one to text first or to send the first invite the new person, but that grace only lasts for first 3 tries. After that, they got to also start opening conversations and sending hangout invites or I will drop them and not feel bad about it.
2026-11-01 22:32:49
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✌🏻🙃 :
i’m in this same situation 😬 no friends in philly, making friends is so hard 😭
2026-10-18 20:28:23
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Maybe: Mya :
And i HATE ITTT
2026-10-19 01:11:58
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madian :
Me…. Ill make new friends but ill quickly bail on them if my original friends wanna hang
2026-10-18 21:00:09
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beepboop :
I love spending time alone, I don't really try to force friendships with random people, I prefer friendships that just kinda happen spontaneously
2026-10-21 03:43:31
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D9 :
And I end up being the third wheel and it hurts they don’t get how I feel
2026-10-20 19:01:13
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Drewski :
🔥🔥
2026-10-19 08:43:29
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J :
Oh I needed to hear this right now
2026-10-19 19:53:34
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ᥫ᭡. :
I’ll consider
2026-10-19 07:55:39
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NomNom :
YESSSSS SO TRUE
2026-10-21 01:24:38
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