Exactly. People who are naturally compatible should be friends. I have an outgoing, warm personality, and I tend to attract needy people 😭 It annoys the hell out of me.
2026-10-19 10:00:46
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beyoncecranberry :
That’s an acquaintance babe
2026-10-19 16:00:29
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JotheSho🪩 :
I partially agree with this, but a lot of people take low maintenance communication to the extreme these days. Why are yall ok with going numerous weeks without talking to someone you care about? Definitely dont need to speak every single day, but weeks and months at a time?
2026-10-19 20:47:59
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Kathleena_KY :
Exactly, and if it’s not for you, do not submit an application
2026-10-19 18:02:49
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ellz stefani :
yes this, but when you ask a question or discuss sth time sensitive they dont leave u on delivered for weeks
2026-10-19 12:36:03
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mielredux :
Continuous verbal reassurance no, but continuous presence absolutely. If you’re not around and we hardly speak, how are we friends ? Where is the intentionality? That’s an acquaintance imo
2026-10-19 16:15:08
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Kena :
Sorry but at my age If I’m meeting NEW friends we kinda do need to be texting 2-3 times a week OR hanging out once a week or 2 weeks . I’m not looking for a penpal to check in with every 1-2 months I’m looking for a friend to do stuff with
2026-10-19 17:49:18
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isa :
there’s a certain amount of trust you have for someone when you don’t need to communicate constantly 🤷♂️
2026-10-19 20:35:26
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user7383772788290 :
I get what you mean but high maintenance in character doesn't make sense. what are you doing maintaining their character?
2026-10-19 03:10:43
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Georgia :
YES
2026-10-19 02:19:22
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neeka :
this is literally me omg
2026-10-19 04:30:27
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Majin.buuty :
True communication is not about the density/frequency of texting and calling, its about the quality and consistency. I think thats something that people struggle with.
2026-10-19 18:31:48
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Dreamstar :
Absolutely
2026-10-20 04:35:58
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Tanyatmmrw :
RETWEET
2026-10-20 04:27:06
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Alex :
my bestie and I text almost everyday but it's the smallest dumbest shit. then we have life altering thought experiments and lore updates, it's great
2026-10-20 05:48:42
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DukeBasti :
I sometimes mistake a message for an invitation to call and were just talking about the same thing a week ago because we literally have not done anything of substance 😭
2026-10-20 01:05:14
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Sophie | momma 🎀 :
I think it depends on the people. I don’t think anyone is bad for needing a lot of attention over others, but I think it’s unrealistic to assume anyone is the exact same as you in their needs in friendships ❤️not that this video is saying that, but there’s a lot of hate for either side, but if it works for you, it works. So be it 🥰
2026-10-20 02:25:44
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Cheongmee 🌻 :
Honestly that’s friendships that reach family status
2026-10-19 04:15:12
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sheiskalifa :
I love secure people and those that understand the need to isolate sometimes. I think this means much more to people who have had to be the pillar in a lot of the relationships they’ve had, so they need the security of knowing someone isn’t going to suffocate or walk away based on emotions and obligations.
2026-10-19 17:32:50
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Sofia Gabay :
I love u.
2026-10-19 02:43:01
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kai🌴 :
so what happens if we go weeks and weeks until we no longer friends 😭😭😭
2026-10-19 17:56:15
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tunas 🍫🍩🍮 :
May this type of friendship never find me
2026-10-19 19:52:21
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kayla 💐 :
i text my best friend of over a decade like twice a month 😭 but we’d take a bullet for one another
2026-10-19 16:39:07
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NOT SPANISH :
Weeks is crazy
2026-10-19 21:50:53
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