My wife is whimsical and loud. She loves dancing and getting very excited. I’m stoic, traditional and quiet. I never try to control her or change her. All I ask is that she doesn’t embarrass me in public or bring us too much attention. Respect and boundaries are healthy and good! Not all traditional men want to tame or control. In fact I love it and wish I was more like her but I’m not. I’m drawn to all her energy and personality. I also get embarrassed easy and turn bright red soooooo…. That’s why I ask her to be mindful in public lol so I don’t turn into a tomato and feel awkward.
2026-10-20 01:35:18
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Cassandra :
He wants to tame you himself.
2026-10-19 19:27:15
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⋆ ˚。Stephy୨୧˚ :
This quote made my stomach hurt
2026-10-19 18:20:41
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I Don’t Really Care❌♌️ :
I know this ALL too well. My ex spent 16 years trying to cage me. He almost succeeded right before clipping my wings. I wised up and flew the coop. Now I’m a free bird 🦅
2026-10-19 18:32:59
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Modest Closet :
Oh this explains so much 🧐 never lose ur whimsy!!
2026-10-20 06:29:10
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Friendly Ghan :
It's essentially a hostile variant on "fixer" behavior. He sees you as a project, a broken thing to fix so it fulfills its intended purpose. Fixers want the project, not the end result, so if you're foolish enough to become want he wants, ironically he'll cheat on or leave you.
2026-10-19 20:35:21
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SBSB1993 :
But whimsical doesn’t mean independent though lol. People forget there are very hyper feminine ‘domestic’ type women who are very whimsy and prefer traditional men. Yet ppl minimize a whimsy woman to a certain type or look. However, at the end of the day a woman should be whatever it is she wants to be 💖
2026-10-19 20:54:50
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unntamable :
Uggghh this ruined my entire week..
2026-10-19 18:28:33
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httpsBAMFhttps.com :
The demonization is insane
2026-10-20 09:09:27
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demidem_ :
This was me. Until I found someone to run wild with. Down to earth but is a nomad deep down. I hope every “whimsy” woman finds the perfect person for them (if that’s why she wants)
2026-10-19 23:08:28
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sullen113 :
💯💯💯💯.. more like ripping off a butterfly's wings and keep it in a ja
2026-10-19 22:45:58
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Summer Starr ⚜️ :
Same here but I just act super aloof and dizzy until they get sick of me
2026-10-19 19:13:37
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cyrk_dzemka :
Some boys take a beautiful girl and hide her away from the rest of the world...
2026-10-20 03:15:05
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priya :
Idk I love this …. It’s a challenge he’ll never achieve lmao. I’m never changing
2026-10-19 22:27:00
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Thamy🇭🇹🇲🇫🇺🇸 :
i always attract obsessive man like WTH??😫😫
2026-10-19 21:55:47
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Mistressofthesun :
That’s some scary shii
2026-10-20 08:36:29
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seesameee :
Damn that makes so much sense
2026-10-19 18:45:45
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L :
that book traumatized me but opened my eyes so much about the earth
2026-10-20 06:47:34
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Nicole Elsholz :
Exactly the quote that came to mind. They want to put you in a cage on a shelf.
2026-10-19 18:07:44
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yawnjohn123 :
Ugh… I need to go talk to my therapist
2026-10-19 17:05:09
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Naturallyjosh :
Who tf want a completely dependent person? That’s so strange to me
2026-10-19 18:29:59
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OceanLove🌊 :
It means your a challenge to him and it’s a game.
2026-10-20 02:24:32
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Polish94 :
For me it's a bit different. I'm very traditional, raised that way, but I want someone that helps me break out and be as free as I want to be mentally. I had that for a few years, I've since closed up without her.
2026-10-19 21:02:33
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Miss Iridescent :
yup. to 'tame' us into making us look like we are obsessed with them enough to do anything for them, so they feel good. haha but haha not funny.
2026-10-19 22:50:01
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useerg14 :
THISSSSSS
2026-10-20 03:56:47
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