@georgianajohnson_: I used to make so many decisions based on whether there might be attractive men around. Where I went, what I wore, even which activities I wanted to do. And I didn’t realise how much of my life was revolving around the possibility of meeting someone. You can still really want a relationship, but your life shouldn’t become one big search for a man. Start doing things because YOU genuinely want to do them, not because of who might notice you. If you want to start decentring men without giving up on love, I’ve created a free guide with 3 practical ways to start doing exactly that. It’s linked in my bio 🤍